"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JPlaya

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Everywhere we go girls are always talking to him. All he does is stand there and they approach. Hes a 6 at best and is short. Aside from the fact hes white, im taller and better looking than him. Are southern belles really that racist.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dawg u sound like a troll. You didn't have so much trouble in Barbados did you? I know the rest of the world is different to the caribbean. But you got to educate yourself. People there have entirely different eye-contact. They'll watch u really strong out in the street, and often they don't like when people look them in the eye. Analyse that.

You are coming off like you want any girls to approach you. I think you ought to narrow down your idea of an eligible girl. I know the way you caribbean guys think. "I don't watch face", they say. Well I advise you to watch face.

I want girls to approach me too, but not all girls. You gotta let them strike out.

You got to even think whether girls are worthy of approaching you. Did you know that in the animal kingdom a female gorilla will sit behind the silverback, with her back towards him, and wait for him to approach? She doesn't invade his space. I learned that from Mystery. So before you want a girl to approach you, you got to filter the girl through some filters first. It'll make the girls feel better to know that you have standards.

Even if all the girls there were goodlooking, if you looked closely, 1 f them may have been an attention *****. Another may have been insecure. And another may have been some asexual feminist. There you are, left with barely any normal women.
 

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He is a troll
 
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