"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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JPlaya

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Everywhere we go girls are always talking to him. All he does is stand there and they approach. Hes a 6 at best and is short. Aside from the fact hes white, im taller and better looking than him. Are southern belles really that racist.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chamber36

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Dawg u sound like a troll. You didn't have so much trouble in Barbados did you? I know the rest of the world is different to the caribbean. But you got to educate yourself. People there have entirely different eye-contact. They'll watch u really strong out in the street, and often they don't like when people look them in the eye. Analyse that.

You are coming off like you want any girls to approach you. I think you ought to narrow down your idea of an eligible girl. I know the way you caribbean guys think. "I don't watch face", they say. Well I advise you to watch face.

I want girls to approach me too, but not all girls. You gotta let them strike out.

You got to even think whether girls are worthy of approaching you. Did you know that in the animal kingdom a female gorilla will sit behind the silverback, with her back towards him, and wait for him to approach? She doesn't invade his space. I learned that from Mystery. So before you want a girl to approach you, you got to filter the girl through some filters first. It'll make the girls feel better to know that you have standards.

Even if all the girls there were goodlooking, if you looked closely, 1 f them may have been an attention *****. Another may have been insecure. And another may have been some asexual feminist. There you are, left with barely any normal women.
 

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He is a troll
 
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