"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How is my AFC friend getting all the chicks??

lizardfloyd

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yeah, i pretty much see what everyone is getting at. I mean he's not an AFc as i had mistakenly posted in my question. He's pretty dang outgoing and the girl i was talking about sat on his lap and said to him "i think i'm in love with you" and he had barely even talked to the girl that much. Then he pretty much fell in love with her.

The first time me and him met we were talkin about chicks and he said that he doesn't get attached. The last girl he was with broke up with him without much explanation why, and he went over to her house and left flowers on her car window and then he apologized for something that he didnt have to apologize for. It just made me think of what a typical AFC would do. And when this chick broke up with him he came whining to me and was drinking himself retartded and talkin about wanting to kill himself.

I honestly havent really gotten a chance to talk to her and get to know what kind of girl she is. Because he is with her every single minute that he gets. Hell, i never even get to see my friend becuase he's always over at her apartment. And when i do see him he talks about how shes the "one" and she's the one he is gonna marry.

I just figured she wouldnt be with him if he was doing those AFC type things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by skeeloo
you guys are dreaming if you think you wont spend money on a woman you want an ltr with, you most spend some money weather you like to or not or else she will leave your ass. keep lying to your selves.
keep telling yourself that chump
 
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