The only difference I can think of is you can irritate your penis or make it less sensitive sense a hand is less forgiving than a *****. Other than that, if you masturbate 5 times a day or have sex 5 times a day, isn't it all the same to your body?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How is masturbation and sex different?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I've never been sore from spanking it but I've been sore from too much sex. I think taking care of yourself is less harmful than sex.
I think the physiology is pretty much the same.....
I think the physiology is pretty much the same.....
speed dawg
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Eh, WHAT???
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Women absorb chemicals from cvm that make them less prone to depression and mood swings. I would not be surprised if pvssy juice were equally healthy for us. 
You heard wrong on that one. I had a year long relationship of literally 10-15 times a week sex (long sex, not just quickies) and my beergut never changed. Hell, look at Ron Jeremy. Sex burns calories, and is somewhat aerobic, but not enough to make a change in your physical appearance.San Jose California said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Da Realist
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If you can't tell the difference, you're not doing something right.
oakraiderz2
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Yea, i agree. I also think if you have to ask such STUPID questions, you probably need to seriously get some help. Either you lack the proper amount of intelligence to solve this complex problem, or youre just lazy and want some sort of attention. Either way, you should probably fix your life before it gets any worse and you start asking more retarded questions.Da Realist said:
Don Shinra
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When you masturbate you are fvking your hand. When you have sex you are fvcking a chick...or animal, cuz they have vaginas too.
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lol yea the difference is you're actually getting some when you have sex as oppose to jerking it by yourself
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's pretty funny....
Since I wear those desens condoms I can go for a while and I never get sore or feel weird ( I like to try to cvm more then once ) BUT when I jerk it and cvm more then once for some reason it feels like my butt hurts maybe after the 2nd or 3rd time.
The calorie thing is funny, I remember being in school (HS) and some girl was talking to her friends and just said this to them
HER: Ya sex like burns 1500 calories
Friend: REALLY!
I have no idea what they were talking about but that was pretty funny guess she'd rather hit on a personal trainer then the weights.
Since I wear those desens condoms I can go for a while and I never get sore or feel weird ( I like to try to cvm more then once ) BUT when I jerk it and cvm more then once for some reason it feels like my butt hurts maybe after the 2nd or 3rd time.
The calorie thing is funny, I remember being in school (HS) and some girl was talking to her friends and just said this to them
HER: Ya sex like burns 1500 calories
Friend: REALLY!
I have no idea what they were talking about but that was pretty funny guess she'd rather hit on a personal trainer then the weights.
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Or he is on to something beyond our comprehension!Da Realist said:
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This is totally up for debate. It does make sense that having sex increases confidence given it is a good indicator of a person having social skills, will and effort for obtaining an objective that is difficult for most people.San Jose California said:
As for masturbation decreasing confidence, why? Being saddened just cause you didnt get sex that night? The person might otherwise be very realized but due to lack of time or conditions has mb as a more practical way of getting rocks off than sex.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maxtro
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There are actual psychological benefits to having sex that masturbation doesn't give.
My profesor also talked about benifts of sex in last weeks Human Sexuality class.
These are the notes from her power point
Is sex good?
• Can cure headaches
• Reduce stress, sleep well
• Increase blood flow to brain
• Body maintenance-burns calories
o 150 calories every half hour
• Fountain of youth – increases life span
• Increase hormone levels
o In a natural way
I agree with Cry For Love that having sex increases confidence for the reasons you listed and more. But masturbation does not decrease it.
My profesor also talked about benifts of sex in last weeks Human Sexuality class.
These are the notes from her power point
Is sex good?
• Can cure headaches
• Reduce stress, sleep well
• Increase blood flow to brain
• Body maintenance-burns calories
o 150 calories every half hour
• Fountain of youth – increases life span
• Increase hormone levels
o In a natural way
I agree with Cry For Love that having sex increases confidence for the reasons you listed and more. But masturbation does not decrease it.