The only difference I can think of is you can irritate your penis or make it less sensitive sense a hand is less forgiving than a *****. Other than that, if you masturbate 5 times a day or have sex 5 times a day, isn't it all the same to your body?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How is masturbation and sex different?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Teflon_Mcgee
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I've never been sore from spanking it but I've been sore from too much sex. I think taking care of yourself is less harmful than sex.
I think the physiology is pretty much the same.....
I think the physiology is pretty much the same.....
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Eh, WHAT???
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Women absorb chemicals from cvm that make them less prone to depression and mood swings. I would not be surprised if pvssy juice were equally healthy for us. 
You heard wrong on that one. I had a year long relationship of literally 10-15 times a week sex (long sex, not just quickies) and my beergut never changed. Hell, look at Ron Jeremy. Sex burns calories, and is somewhat aerobic, but not enough to make a change in your physical appearance.San Jose California said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
If you can't tell the difference, you're not doing something right.
oakraiderz2
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Yea, i agree. I also think if you have to ask such STUPID questions, you probably need to seriously get some help. Either you lack the proper amount of intelligence to solve this complex problem, or youre just lazy and want some sort of attention. Either way, you should probably fix your life before it gets any worse and you start asking more retarded questions.Da Realist said:
Don Shinra
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When you masturbate you are fvking your hand. When you have sex you are fvcking a chick...or animal, cuz they have vaginas too.
PrettyBoyA
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lol yea the difference is you're actually getting some when you have sex as oppose to jerking it by yourself
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's pretty funny....
Since I wear those desens condoms I can go for a while and I never get sore or feel weird ( I like to try to cvm more then once ) BUT when I jerk it and cvm more then once for some reason it feels like my butt hurts maybe after the 2nd or 3rd time.
The calorie thing is funny, I remember being in school (HS) and some girl was talking to her friends and just said this to them
HER: Ya sex like burns 1500 calories
Friend: REALLY!
I have no idea what they were talking about but that was pretty funny guess she'd rather hit on a personal trainer then the weights.
Since I wear those desens condoms I can go for a while and I never get sore or feel weird ( I like to try to cvm more then once ) BUT when I jerk it and cvm more then once for some reason it feels like my butt hurts maybe after the 2nd or 3rd time.
The calorie thing is funny, I remember being in school (HS) and some girl was talking to her friends and just said this to them
HER: Ya sex like burns 1500 calories
Friend: REALLY!
I have no idea what they were talking about but that was pretty funny guess she'd rather hit on a personal trainer then the weights.
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Or he is on to something beyond our comprehension!Da Realist said:
Cry For Love
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This is totally up for debate. It does make sense that having sex increases confidence given it is a good indicator of a person having social skills, will and effort for obtaining an objective that is difficult for most people.San Jose California said:
As for masturbation decreasing confidence, why? Being saddened just cause you didnt get sex that night? The person might otherwise be very realized but due to lack of time or conditions has mb as a more practical way of getting rocks off than sex.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
There are actual psychological benefits to having sex that masturbation doesn't give.
My profesor also talked about benifts of sex in last weeks Human Sexuality class.
These are the notes from her power point
Is sex good?
• Can cure headaches
• Reduce stress, sleep well
• Increase blood flow to brain
• Body maintenance-burns calories
o 150 calories every half hour
• Fountain of youth – increases life span
• Increase hormone levels
o In a natural way
I agree with Cry For Love that having sex increases confidence for the reasons you listed and more. But masturbation does not decrease it.
My profesor also talked about benifts of sex in last weeks Human Sexuality class.
These are the notes from her power point
Is sex good?
• Can cure headaches
• Reduce stress, sleep well
• Increase blood flow to brain
• Body maintenance-burns calories
o 150 calories every half hour
• Fountain of youth – increases life span
• Increase hormone levels
o In a natural way
I agree with Cry For Love that having sex increases confidence for the reasons you listed and more. But masturbation does not decrease it.