Flabbergasped?
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When men are physically stronger?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How is it possible for any women to dominate relationships...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some men are weak when it comes to relationships even though they can flip your car over.
i.e.:
Trying to always please the woman
Never letting her get angry and experience the emotional rollercoaster
Always making sure she's satisfied
Basically bending to her every whim and trying to create what he believes is the woman's perception of a perfect world. When you make that world for them... they'll like you less for it.
i.e.:
Trying to always please the woman
Never letting her get angry and experience the emotional rollercoaster
Always making sure she's satisfied
Basically bending to her every whim and trying to create what he believes is the woman's perception of a perfect world. When you make that world for them... they'll like you less for it.
the quote "whoever needs the other person the least comes to mind"
The fact is in most relationships, the girl is far more able to drop the guy than he her. Heck, I scored a girl 2 weeks ago. I have 2 other plates going, 1 of which is a bit longer so I wasn't really into her. However, her scoring with another guy tonight still triggered feelings of jealousy in me. Imagine if you were really hung up on a girl what that would do to you.. Women for the most part are far better manipulators.
The fact is in most relationships, the girl is far more able to drop the guy than he her. Heck, I scored a girl 2 weeks ago. I have 2 other plates going, 1 of which is a bit longer so I wasn't really into her. However, her scoring with another guy tonight still triggered feelings of jealousy in me. Imagine if you were really hung up on a girl what that would do to you.. Women for the most part are far better manipulators.
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The answer lies in your question. If you cant compete physically whats your next option? Its evolution baby. Chicks know the social dance of getting what they want inside and out. Most guys if not all cant even begin to understand to what depth it really goes.Flabbergasped? said:When men are physically stronger?
For memory Robert Greene talks about this.
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Physically weaker people can dominate relationships because genocide is no longer a valid approach to resolving conflict.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
women just know how to manipulate men's emotions.
we understimate the power that women have to manipulate us.
most times, we dont even realise that we are being manipulated by our girlfriend or wife. they get to manipulate us in a suttle way that makes us believe that we are the ones that are making the choices.
for example... lets say that your girlfriend is always complaining about her winter coat....she says that it doesnt protect her, that she looks fat when she wears it, that it looks old.....bla,bla,bla
then suddenly she starts a fight with you and makes it seem like its your fault.....lets say that you two break up for a day and you start to miss her. then, you start to think about how to fix the relationship and a """great idea""" pops up in your head that she will love you again if you buy her a new coat because she desperately needs it.
there you go, she has manipulated you into buying her a new coat.
she manipulated you but you are certain that the idea of buying a coat for her was all yours.
I fell for those kinds of tricks over and over again until I found this site.
men are physically stronger and smarter than women,,,,women are socially more savvy and emotionally smarter than men.
we understimate the power that women have to manipulate us.
most times, we dont even realise that we are being manipulated by our girlfriend or wife. they get to manipulate us in a suttle way that makes us believe that we are the ones that are making the choices.
for example... lets say that your girlfriend is always complaining about her winter coat....she says that it doesnt protect her, that she looks fat when she wears it, that it looks old.....bla,bla,bla
then suddenly she starts a fight with you and makes it seem like its your fault.....lets say that you two break up for a day and you start to miss her. then, you start to think about how to fix the relationship and a """great idea""" pops up in your head that she will love you again if you buy her a new coat because she desperately needs it.
there you go, she has manipulated you into buying her a new coat.
she manipulated you but you are certain that the idea of buying a coat for her was all yours.
I fell for those kinds of tricks over and over again until I found this site.
men are physically stronger and smarter than women,,,,women are socially more savvy and emotionally smarter than men.