"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How is important is AGE in the dating world?

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guru1000 said:
I hear you.

Hey, not everybody can be a cowboy. Many INDIANS are needed to make the world function.

It is OK if you choose not to be the leader. Just remember with every CHOICE, there is a CONSEQUENCE.

Hell, it much easier to be a SHEEP and follow rules. But certainly guys like Bill Gates and Warren Buffet didn't get to the top percentile of attaining wealth by becoming employees.

Same analogy with women. If you want to be a GIANT amongst women, you must LEAD and DIRECT.

You CHOOSE.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok then I have no choice then. I will have to be the GIANT cause I dont want to be the leader anymore. Im overqualifed as a leader and dont make a good employee either. As we speak I just my put in my two weeks notice in at my job yesterday. I hated working for my "female" boss at last job. It was degrading.

Teaching s*cks too cause I am burned out on babysitting, leading, and dealing with brats all day long. Women can be a pain in the ass too cause you constantly have to monitor them and their craziness when dating.
 
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huskybear said:
Ok then I have no choice then. I will have to be the GIANT cause I dont want to be the leader anymore. Im overqualifed as a leader and dont make a good employee either. As we speak I just my put in my two weeks notice in at my job yesterday. I hated working for my "female" boss at last job. It was degrading.

Teaching s*cks too cause I am burned out on babysitting, leading, and dealing with brats all day long. Women can be a pain in the ass too cause you constantly have to monitor them and their craziness when dating.
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Teaching is not a trait of being a LEADER. It is babysitting.

Leading in the business world is running your own business and possibly take a loss at the end of the year, rather than a paycheck.

As well, you cannot be a GIANT if you CHOOSE not to lead. You will be a sheep amongst the girly men out there.

Whatever you CHOOSE is fine as long as you are congruent with the consequence.
 
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