"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How is important is AGE in the dating world?

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guru1000 said:
I hear you.

Hey, not everybody can be a cowboy. Many INDIANS are needed to make the world function.

It is OK if you choose not to be the leader. Just remember with every CHOICE, there is a CONSEQUENCE.

Hell, it much easier to be a SHEEP and follow rules. But certainly guys like Bill Gates and Warren Buffet didn't get to the top percentile of attaining wealth by becoming employees.

Same analogy with women. If you want to be a GIANT amongst women, you must LEAD and DIRECT.

You CHOOSE.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok then I have no choice then. I will have to be the GIANT cause I dont want to be the leader anymore. Im overqualifed as a leader and dont make a good employee either. As we speak I just my put in my two weeks notice in at my job yesterday. I hated working for my "female" boss at last job. It was degrading.

Teaching s*cks too cause I am burned out on babysitting, leading, and dealing with brats all day long. Women can be a pain in the ass too cause you constantly have to monitor them and their craziness when dating.
 
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huskybear said:
Ok then I have no choice then. I will have to be the GIANT cause I dont want to be the leader anymore. Im overqualifed as a leader and dont make a good employee either. As we speak I just my put in my two weeks notice in at my job yesterday. I hated working for my "female" boss at last job. It was degrading.

Teaching s*cks too cause I am burned out on babysitting, leading, and dealing with brats all day long. Women can be a pain in the ass too cause you constantly have to monitor them and their craziness when dating.
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Teaching is not a trait of being a LEADER. It is babysitting.

Leading in the business world is running your own business and possibly take a loss at the end of the year, rather than a paycheck.

As well, you cannot be a GIANT if you CHOOSE not to lead. You will be a sheep amongst the girly men out there.

Whatever you CHOOSE is fine as long as you are congruent with the consequence.
 
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