theSpeculator
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How is a Don Juan and Leader the Same?
It is because a Don Juan and a leader are the same person. I think a Don Juan is basically a leader with the knowledge of how women work and is capable of utilizing that knowledge to get women. A leader can also be described as a "good" men with virtuous qualities like integrity, assertiveness, wisdom, courageousness, and list is endless. A leader like a Don Juan is not a "nice" guy, but he is not a "jerk" either. He is somewhere inbetween; he is a balance between the two extremes.
Consider these word from leadership author Warren G. Bennis: "The leaders I met, whatever walk of life they were from, whatever institutions they were presiding over, always referred back to...something that happened to them that was personally difficult, even traumatic, something that made them feel that desperate sense of hitting bottom, as something they thought was almost neccessity. It's as if at that momentthe iron entered their soul; that moment created the resilience that leaders need."
Is this not similiar to how an AFC is transformed to a DJ? The traumatic event an AFC endured could've been being hurt by a girl he had deep feeling for. To all the Master DJ, have you never felt the "desperate sense of hitting bottom" and did that event not make you stronger?
Consider a quote from Ayn Rand: "The great creators--the thinkers, the artists, the scientists, the inventors--stood alone against the men of their time."
Isn't the journey of a Don Juan one that is feel with loneliness? A Don Juan is rare and there is no guarantee that he will meet someone that will understand him: guy or girl. To be a Don Juan means to be alone and he must have the courage to realize that he will be alone. If he cannot face that, if he cannot let go of the safety from other people, his family or friends, then how can he ever become a Don Juan?
Consider another quote from Ayn Ran: "The truth is not for all men, but only for those who seek it."
Is this not how most AFC discover sites like sosuave.com or fastseduction.com? Isn't this any more true today, most guys will not seeks to find out what is wrong with them, but only a few do. Only a few actually dedicate their time and lives with the perseverance to learn about the theories and principles that sosuave.com teaches. These few that do will become DJ and maybe even become leaders.
The Don Juan Bible did a good job introducing and educating AFC into this world that research how women think and how to utilize that knowledge. The Testaments will go farther and focus on developing the leadership traits of AFC and as a side-affect, not the purpose, make him more attractive to women. The Testaments, when finished?, will attempt to give any AFC that seeks the knowledge and tools he needs to turn himself into a leader and become more successful with women.
Project T has officially started. Below is a link to the site and home to where it is currently being constructed. To all who I have emailed and is still interested in helping construct the Testaments, you must signed up for that site and send me a PM through that site. My screenname there is also theSpeculator. Once I get your email, I will give you access to the hidden forum where Project T will be constructed.
To everyone else that is interested, I will occasionally email you sample articles, posts, ideas, field reports, etc etc that is being developed for the Testaments. If you post your screenname on this thread, I will pm you instructions on what you need to do.
It is because a Don Juan and a leader are the same person. I think a Don Juan is basically a leader with the knowledge of how women work and is capable of utilizing that knowledge to get women. A leader can also be described as a "good" men with virtuous qualities like integrity, assertiveness, wisdom, courageousness, and list is endless. A leader like a Don Juan is not a "nice" guy, but he is not a "jerk" either. He is somewhere inbetween; he is a balance between the two extremes.
Consider these word from leadership author Warren G. Bennis: "The leaders I met, whatever walk of life they were from, whatever institutions they were presiding over, always referred back to...something that happened to them that was personally difficult, even traumatic, something that made them feel that desperate sense of hitting bottom, as something they thought was almost neccessity. It's as if at that momentthe iron entered their soul; that moment created the resilience that leaders need."
Is this not similiar to how an AFC is transformed to a DJ? The traumatic event an AFC endured could've been being hurt by a girl he had deep feeling for. To all the Master DJ, have you never felt the "desperate sense of hitting bottom" and did that event not make you stronger?
Consider a quote from Ayn Rand: "The great creators--the thinkers, the artists, the scientists, the inventors--stood alone against the men of their time."
Isn't the journey of a Don Juan one that is feel with loneliness? A Don Juan is rare and there is no guarantee that he will meet someone that will understand him: guy or girl. To be a Don Juan means to be alone and he must have the courage to realize that he will be alone. If he cannot face that, if he cannot let go of the safety from other people, his family or friends, then how can he ever become a Don Juan?
Consider another quote from Ayn Ran: "The truth is not for all men, but only for those who seek it."
Is this not how most AFC discover sites like sosuave.com or fastseduction.com? Isn't this any more true today, most guys will not seeks to find out what is wrong with them, but only a few do. Only a few actually dedicate their time and lives with the perseverance to learn about the theories and principles that sosuave.com teaches. These few that do will become DJ and maybe even become leaders.
The Don Juan Bible did a good job introducing and educating AFC into this world that research how women think and how to utilize that knowledge. The Testaments will go farther and focus on developing the leadership traits of AFC and as a side-affect, not the purpose, make him more attractive to women. The Testaments, when finished?, will attempt to give any AFC that seeks the knowledge and tools he needs to turn himself into a leader and become more successful with women.
Project T has officially started. Below is a link to the site and home to where it is currently being constructed. To all who I have emailed and is still interested in helping construct the Testaments, you must signed up for that site and send me a PM through that site. My screenname there is also theSpeculator. Once I get your email, I will give you access to the hidden forum where Project T will be constructed.
To everyone else that is interested, I will occasionally email you sample articles, posts, ideas, field reports, etc etc that is being developed for the Testaments. If you post your screenname on this thread, I will pm you instructions on what you need to do.