How is a club for the first date?

[platinumike]

Theres a big event goin down at this one club . I wanna buy presale tickets as they are cheaper and you can cut through the line. Since im not sure if she will end up wanting to go, should i just go there and not have any presale tix, and just pay at the door? Also, the place is about a 45 min drive. Is this a bad idea?

 

[aftershock]

Clubs are a very bad idea in my opinion. Too loud to talk, and if your driving you can't drink - wheres the fun?

Go and get the presale and go with some of your mates I say.

 

[PRMoon]

Don't take your girl to a club for a first date. You don't know this person nor do you have a strong relationship which are the only times i'd ever think about taking my girl to a club.

I took a girl to a club for a third or fourth date one time, I don't remember exactly but it was so lame. I mean first off you can only really dance with one person, your date, while there's bound to be other hot girls in there, and trust me you don't want to get caught staring. Secondly you'll probably want to get to know this person and that's kind of hard with subwoofers pounding in your ears. Lastly it's just not as fun roaming the club and haing to chaparone a girl around with you, fending off advancing guys and what not or standing and waiting for her to ditch a guy who's hitting on her (kind of chumpish to me but i've seen it before)

If you want to go somewhere fun just go to a bar. After you've spent some time with the girl you can take her to a club later on in your relationship, but right now it's just too fledgeling.

 

[So Many Ways]

Bad idea, don't do it. I know this from personal experience.

 

[HKgunslinger]

Bad, bad idea.

#1 Clubs are pick-up joints. Might as well just take your date to a d!ck-supermarket.

#2 Clubs are noisy, difficult to hear anything, and you're trying to talk your way into her panties right?

'Slinger

 

[belividere]

If you wind up bring her to a d1ck supermarket let me know the time and place.

honestly that is the truth. If you need to go to a bar with a pool table or a dart board. A couple of drinks, a couple of outrageous bets. God only knows what can happen. Most clubs dont offer entertainment like this. And definetly dont go spending money on a girl that may not be worth it anyways. I'm a fan of anti-dump in that I keep all my dates simple and dont buy a woman anything within quite awhile after dating.

 

[Bonhomme]

Depends upon YOUR game

If you're just going to a meat market type of club, without a live band, probably not good, unless it's a scene you're both very much into. Then you can dance with the gal, kino, her, etc. I had one recent date like that, which ended up a pretty intense 2 hour makeout session. Sweet.

Going to check out bands you like in clubs is generally good. A fun 1st date that stands out above the boring dinner dates she's probably all to accustomed to. I've had some great first dates going to check out bands in clubs. A large % have ended up in bed.

Bear in mind, my game is focused on style, eye contact, kino, and dancing. More sensory than verbal, if you will.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Re: Depends upon YOUR game

Originally posted by Bonhomme
If you're just going to a meat market type of club, without a live band, probably not good, unless it's a scene you're both very much into. Then you can dance with the gal, kino, her, etc. I had one recent date like that, which ended up a pretty intense 2 hour makeout session. Sweet.

Going to check out bands you like in clubs is generally good. A fun 1st date that stands out above the boring dinner dates she's probably all to accustomed to. I've had some great first dates going to check out bands in clubs. A large % have ended up in bed.

Bear in mind, my game is focused on style, eye contact, kino, and dancing. More sensory than verbal, if you will.

Ya. Thats what i was thinking.