"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How important to YOU is a girls relationship with her family?

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How important to you is a girls relationship with her family?

If you are thinking of possibly getting serious or becoming a couple with a woman or girl do you ever ask questions about her family life and or see how she or they interact with one another?

I haven't seen this topic though IMO it's is important to see how someone treats or acts around blood and the closest people to her in determining how they may treat you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The most important question is whether she loves her dad (but don't ask strippers that as it's an inside joke).
 

Alex DeLarge

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I can't date a girl that constantly swears at/disrespects her parents. Just a sign of what's to come haha..
 

pinhas

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I dont need her to be close to them, but she does need to respect her parents and elders. I am not very close to my family, so I am not looking for that "family oriented" girl.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Emotionally/physically abusive, absent, alcoholic, or drug addicted father is a massive.. MASSIVE red flag. These women are usually man-eaters.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Her relationship with her family is the biggest qualifier, if I decide I like her and want to explore her potential.

you'll know right away if she's tight with the family or dysfunctional. Her day to day conversations reveal a lot, so you have to decide if she's the type that you just want to bang and have fun with, or if you could see yourself maybe starting a family with.

*hint The ones who come from messed up families and broken homes are not the ones you want to settle down with.

Unfortunately, as our society erodes, there are very few women who are grounded enough to pass the tests.
 

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if i hear "my dad ran out on us when i was 7" i'm out. lol.
 

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W/e society or people say, people with good relationships with their parents have, for the majority, a better head on their shoulders with a better sense of morality.

Comes down to how they were raised and a good relationship with parents generally speaks volumes in regards to their metal stability.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
I can't date a girl that constantly swears at/disrespects her parents. Just a sign of what's to come haha..
+1
i knew once a chick like that, it was a mess !
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Depends on the reason why. If her parents and siblings were abusive, then I'd understand. if it's just for petty stuff, hell no, no matter how good looking/good personality she had. I'd want to girl who had some social skills and could get along with others. ;)
 
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