Jus_LikeCandy
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And by the way, my guy is more than satisfied sexually. Thank you very much!!!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TyJ
Don Juan
Registered: May 2005
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 8
Age: 23
I see him once a week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is nothing!! I know where he is when he aint with me, it is just the fact that he isn't with me that pisses me off. We have mutual friends, so I know where he is at all times. I just makes me mad that he spends Monday might relaxing, Tuesday at the gym, Wednesday with one group of friends, Thursday with the Frat boys and Friday with the Frat boys, Saturday at Football..... And, I have to wait until after all this!!! I get the scraps of what is left!! I don't complain and I don't push for more, but now I want to. The semester is over and it is almost summer!
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Jus_LikeCandy
Don Juan
Registered: May 2005
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 158
Age: 23
Why the heck does my last post have tYJ as the name!!!!!!!! Anyway, we were dating for 9 months, we split up and we jsut started talking again about 2 months ago...
not if he's only seeing you once a week. hahahahahaOriginally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
And by the way, my guy is more than satisfied sexually. Thank you very much!!!
Yeah guys... i bet he's very satisfied.Originally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
And by the way, my guy is more than satisfied sexually. Thank you very much!!!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.