"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how important is sex to you?

MisterD

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Sex is really #1 on my list. Here is my list in it's entirety:

1.Sex

Fact is, there is nothing else. Bonding, sharing experiences, hanging out, etc, I can do that with my friends. All my greatest memories come from my (mostly male) friends.

I'm not looking for friendship, I'm looking to get my **** wet.

If we're not sleeping together you don't exist in my world. Just being honest.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gangster Of Love

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ScottMustaine said:
I stopped caring for sex. I was into it a lot until I broke up with my ex. I'm on no fap challenge, and my libido is lowering. I like it. Because I got high standards about girls, and I'm extremely picky. I don't really care anymore.


The feeling I'm connected and comfort in relationship with girl is much more important to me than sex. I'm a virgin, but I don't find it that much appealing... Guess I'm turning asexual. I didn't like any girl until I hit like..16 years... People were asking me if I'm gay. No, simply not interested...

Lowered libido, but I'm having the angry face all the time.


I guess it's worth a try, to feel a bit relieved and feel the orgasm from time to time. So it's 20%. I can't live without feeling of screaming people while I'm on stage though... Or the feeling when I'm competing with someone.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNusNs97cP0
 
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