“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How important is "Personality"?

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madgame

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Ive been thinking quite a bit about the fact that getting laid many times and getting a girlfriend are two different ballgames. If you want to get a girlfriend, I guess "attraction"..those "butterflies" or whatever have to occur. Let's call it you need to "crush" on the person. I like the same kind of woman that everybody likes, I guess (lean, with a nice ass and big boobs), but out of all the girls I've had major crushes on, I couldn't have executed a boobs **** with none of them ;-).

I'm sure I would have also crushed on them if they had had a perfect body with big tits, but being lean and having a normal figure was obviously enough for me to "crush" on them. And I must say I highly doubt that I would "crush" on any girl because she has big tits, if I didnt crush on her with normal-sized boobs. Get my drift, I assume?

So is "personality" the thing that makes you crush on a person vs. not making you crush on a person (considering your looks are in the same league as hers)?

I think a girl being "cute" and a girl having many similarities with me are two things that make me feel attracted (in more than just a sexual way) to a girl. Also if I think she's a "great" person.

Do you agree that personality is far more important than looks are (!!!considering you're in the same "league", meaning shell even consider dating you ;)!!!) when it comes to landing a girl as g/f? What are some of the qualities that make a woman crush on a man when it comes to personality?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Personality is a part of attraction, but more importantly, I think it determines what kind of relationship the two of you will have.

Obviously, we would be attracted (at least physically) to a hot girl, even if she is a b*tch. But most guys would never take it past a ONS. By the same idea, a hot girl with a great personality would be worthy of an actual relationship!

Personality is not NEARLY as important for men as it is for women, but it's definitely a consideration. No man will stay with a b*tch (except an AFC :D )


I'm actually surprised you called for a discussion of good male personality traits, I think they're generally pretty agreed on:

Confidence
Humor
Maturity
Ambition
Determination
Social Proof
 
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WalkingStick said:
No man will stay with a b*tch (except an AFC :D
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...so, most men will stay with a b!tch.
 
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