"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How important is looks
- Thread starter siza6677
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
let's simplify things for a sec..
looks = good thing
girls likes goodlooking guys
people are attracted to good looking people
looks aren't everything but it's good to have
look your best=feel your best=be your best
nuff said!
there, i made it simple to understand so theres no hidden
'meanings' into it, no cosmic theroies or mumbo jumbo,
cut & dry- to the point like it should be
..but i am sure even with something soo simple and to the
point some wiseguy is gonna disect every word and put their
own little meanings into and twist it around to being something 'AFC'...
L777
Master Don Juan
lol, you think women are the same as men when it comes to getting visually turned on? Bollocks. Look at Fash and the women he gets, same with a lot of guys with good game, me included; average or slightly above average looking and doing pretty well.Originally posted by organizedconfusion
.Oh wait , woman don't get turned on by
guys visualy because their attractions are emotionally
based..rrriiigght.
I honestly believe that if you're not hideous then you'll be OK. And Ive only ever known one guy who was truly hideous, and I know he shagged at least one decent girl in high school...LOL, the guy was beyond ugly