How important is it to have a wingman for the clubs?

[Ratisson]

i think im beggining to realize that i have underestimated the importance of having a wingman for the bars/clubs. Im not talking about the wingman who will talk to the HB1 ugly friend while u talk to the hb10. Im talking about the wingman that will be your partner in picking up a two set of Hb 9's. Im started to think that if u approach a two set of hb9's that you have no chance in taking one of them home (unless they were bi-sexual and u can take both of them home).

I was at the bar a couple nights ago, and i go onto the dancefloor and start dancing with this hb8, while she was dancing with some hb3 friend. The first thing she says to me is that she cant dance cuz shes dancing with her friend. I totally ignore it and say something like; "well now ur dancing with ME!"

i then ask her her honest opinion about having a wingman. i said "if i had a wingman would i be able to pick u up". She said yes.

Is this really how chicks are. If they are both not gonna get laid then no one gets laid at all? If she is gonna get some then you better make sure her friend gets some too or its game over? Is that how it is?

I still got her number from her, but do i need a wingman who will fvck her friend if i wanted to take her home. If thats the case then i'm fvcked because my friends svck with girls, none of them talk to any, and none of them seem like they want to improve. When we go to the bars they just stick together and talk to no one, and i just wander off doing my sarging solo. Any thoughts on this wingman thing?

 

[Mad Manic]

Mate if you approach a two set then it is highly unlikely that you'll take one of them home at the expense of the other. Girls won't leave their friends alone to go home with you. So her friend will need a way to get home, whether that be another guy ****ing her or other friends to distract her. Girls are very *****y and jealous and will ****block all they can to ensure their mate doesn't end up shagging you. Obstacles are the hardest thing. Noisy music, ****blocking friends, loads of clueless guys taking up space etc are all obstacles.

However, what you can do is approach alone women and three sets and go for the lay or just the number, depending on how it pans out.

OR - Try and invite both girls back to your place or go with them to their place and try to **** one when you get there. The obstacle is the main problem, you need to stop the obstacles ****blocking you.

 

[B-Real]

I was in that situation before. My friend and I chatted up some girls and unfortunately one of them was overweight. And to make matters worse, she was driving!!

That night I took one for the team and started acting interested in the big one and low and behold they came back with us and my friend got laid and I didn't.

So I guess it depends. I like to go to clubs with my friends but they just don't do any talking and leave it up to me. Then once I fail, its my fault cause I said something wrong.

I think if you and your wing are on the same page, then its game on.

But to answer your question I don't think a wing is always necessary but I like to have one (good or bad) because it builds your social proof. I personally don't want to be the weird guy lurking around my his self.

 

[ketostix]

But to answer your question I don't think a wing is always necessary but I like to have one (good or bad) because it builds your social proof. I personally don't want to be the weird guy lurking around my his self.

I think this is the biggest thing. You need a wing for SP. Being seen alone in a club can lower your value. So even if your wing is worthless in sets and you don't bring him in, wings are useful.