How important is closing?

[killerasp]

i can pretty much do the number and kiss close...have yet to successfully pull off a sex close.

but i was wondering...how important is it to properly close?

number close is one thing...kiss close and sex close is something different...it should only be done if the vibe has been good all night, but is it that important as it sounds?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm putting on a flame retardant jacket before I answer this one. I believe approaches are more important than closes.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by killerasp
i can pretty much do the number and kiss close...have yet to successfully pull off a sex close.

but i was wondering...how important is it to properly close?

number close is one thing...kiss close and sex close is something different...it should only be done if the vibe has been good all night, but is it that important as it sounds?

1. Maybe it's me and it's late. I'm having trouble understanding your purpose here.

2. If your asking is it important to get the panties...I would say hell ya.

3. If your asking what order is important then I'd say it depends on you. I prefer to get the panties the first night. It all depends on how strong your game is. I realize there is a thread on "quick" women started by iggy. I do not agree with the concept of a quick woman. To me your responsible for creating the energy of the evening.

Men are the controllers. We set the mood and tone by our words and actions. If we do it masterfully then we get laid. If we do it well we get a second chance ie future date. If we do it just ok then we get a number...and hopefully it's correct.

Most fella's have it backwards in this area. Most do not see how they control the flow by their game. A master will sweep a woman into another world and she will wake up later after he is gone or he kicks her out...lol...wondering what the fawk happened and why it happened so fast.

 

[killerasp]

using this as an example...lets say you were dacing very seductivly with a women..and in the heat of passion..you kiss her on the dance floor leading to make out session.....would you still kiss close her?

im prolly answernig my own question..so im just gonna say yes.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by killerasp
using this as an example...lets say you were dacing very seductivly with a women..and in the heat of passion..you kiss her on the dance floor leading to make out session.....would you still kiss close her?

im prolly answernig my own question..so im just gonna say yes.

huh...are you a robot? click whirr...click whirr...kiss close now....click whirr...

If I'm dancing seductively with a woman then I'm going for the pantie close...click whirr...ohh ahhh yeah baby...whap whap...mmmmmm...

why let the passion die with only a kiss...carry her ass away into never never land...never as in I will probably never see you again but it's been nice...I will call you...don't call me babygirl...lol

 

[quest]

player supreme. i often get into a situation where i'm in a club, dancing seductivly and it leads into a makeout session. probably 1 in 3 trips to a club.

my question, how do you take that further? have u got ur own place? that'd be easier "want to come back to my joint for some drinks?" but with mum and dad in the room next door, what the **** do i do? can't really ask "want to go to YOUR house?"

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by quest
player supreme. i often get into a situation where i'm in a club, dancing seductivly and it leads into a makeout session. probably 1 in 3 trips to a club.

my question, how do you take that further? have u got ur own place? that'd be easier "want to come back to my joint for some drinks?" but with mum and dad in the room next door, what the **** do i do? can't really ask "want to go to YOUR house?"

It's as easy as "let's go back to your place" that is all you gotta say and wait for the answer.

if it's other than a no...try closing again. click whirr click whirr....lol

most women will fold on the 2nd attempt to close. make sure you start kissing her deeply if you get to the first no...

kiss kiss...unn nno I don't think so....kisss kisss...yeah let's go back and hook up at your place....kiss kiss...ok!...kiss kiss...

or you can do my method. the power method:

"lets go back to your place" do not wait for an answer. immediately take her hand and do the take way....

drag her throught the crowd making people move aside for you...this shows her your a strong competent and in control man.

as your dragging her turn around suddenly to squash any thoughts and kiss her suddenly and deeply....

seals the deal!

 

[killerasp]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
huh...are you a robot? click whirr...click whirr...kiss close now....click whirr...

If I'm dancing seductively with a woman then I'm going for the pantie close...click whirr...ohh ahhh yeah baby...whap whap...mmmmmm...

why let the passion die with only a kiss...carry her ass away into never never land...never as in I will probably never see you again but it's been nice...I will call you...don't call me babygirl...lol

it sounds like you are the man with sex close....BUT...would you recommend a sex close to a *cough*virigin*cough*

 

[quest]

and if she lives in a room next door to her mum and dad, like i do?

how old are u? and most of the chicks you get.

i'm 20, most would be 18-20..

i know like.. 0 chicks with there own place..

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by killerasp
it sounds like you are the man with sex close....BUT...would you recommend a sex close to a *cough*virigin*cough*

lol hell ya. especially to a cough virgin cough...how else are you going to get experience.

go out there and make your mistakes and grow stronger and better in the arts of love making. its the only way. you can't read about it forever you must do!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by quest
and if she lives in a room next door to her mum and dad, like i do?

how old are u? and most of the chicks you get.

i'm 20, most would be 18-20..

i know like.. 0 chicks with there own place..

Dam, another reason for an older dj's room. 44.

go for the chicks who have their own places. In sales it's called prequalifying them.

hey ho..you got ya own place? good let's go fawk.
uhh don't say that...just a joke

good nite fella's It's 11:33pm and I've got company coming over in 30 minutes.

 

[killerasp]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
lol hell ya. especially to a cough virgin cough...how else are you going to get experience.

go out there and make your mistakes and grow stronger and better in the arts of love making. its the only way. you can't read about it forever you must do!

**** yeah dude...thats just what i needed...i got this girl..im very she will want to...i just gotta open my freaking mouth. we shall find out this weekend.

 

[Big Pappy]

Don't any of you young uns screw in the back seat of your car anymore?

 

[quest]

yep! i do..
done it in 5 cars, with 3 girls..
but prob is.. can't drink and drive. + i have a 1988 ford falcon, nice and roomy, but not the best car to score with..
but yeah, can't drink and drive and most the time i have sex, say... 93%, i've been drinking.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Ok first of all STOP USING THE WORD CLOSE it's friggin idiotic. The day you stop thinking about the friggin word CLOS(E/ING) you'll be a better player.

Oh ye stop calling it a makeoutsession too. Kissing is kissing, if I say I kissed someone it's guaranteed french not some friggin pecking.

Now that we've gotten over the semantics and belittling we can move over to the topic

The "closing" you talk off is just were you yourself set the limits for what YOU want todo. If you want to dance with her and rid of her do that if you want to kiss her and fondle her ass or if you want to just go with the girl home to her and fvck her brains out!

And why fvck in a car when you can fvck pratically anywhere else? Home, parties, bathrooms, parkbenches etc etc. Cars are just cramped and uncomfortable.

Player_Supreme didn't you get my PM?

 

[Player_Supreme]

Kinetic? that your not a chick..yeah I got that. If there was another one ?? what was the nature of it...pm me

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Ye it was question for the url for those ebook zips... I never found ehm.