"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how important are good looking male friends?

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i know they can provide social proof when i hang out with them, but should making friends with the "cool" guys at college be one of my priorities? would it help me?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WesCottII

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Man, you can pull if you hang with the cool guys, you can pull with no friends, as long as you're acting like a true alpha male.

The cool guys'd be an advantage, but you should be friendly with everyone, whilst being the alpha in all your friendship groups, it's no use being with the cool guys, but being a beta, you'll get no tail.
 

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True in highschool I sat with a lot of guys that played football and most of them didn't have girls (or ugly ones). It's when you are comfortable with yourself and your surroundings that you don't need social proof at all.
 

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The key thing is to be the cool guy. Introduce yourself and make friends with everyone. That way groups will form around you if you have the confidence.
 

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They deffinately help.. but don't let it make or break you. I've been on both sides, went from chump.. to an all around cool guy.. I've deffinately got a lot more social proof and I'm getting attention from some people I never would of thought talked to me in my wildest dreams. But as everyone said.. you should be cool with everyone.. just stay confident. Try and be the cool person yourself.. try and be the guy that people always want to be around. It's harder than it looks, I've been trying to achieve this for awhile.. I guess it will come in time. Just keep improving yourself. People will notice, trust me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The willingness to go out alone is what seperates the amauters from the champions.
 
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