"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How I'm losing weight

donjuanapprentice01

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I admit to myself that I'm a bit obese (about 30 pounds or so).. and I've started to shed the weight. So far lost 5 pounds in a week. Just thought I'd let you know how I have been doing it. Quite simple really:

1. I cut down on how much I ate BIG TIME. No more fast food junk, no more potato chips, only healthy meals like fish, rice and the occasional steak (never giving up a juicy steak, ever) No more cakes and sweet stuff...

2. Some may raz me on this one, but I have cut down to one meal a day. Yes, flame me. I only eat supper. I skip Breakfast and Lunch now. I might grab a power bar at lunch if I feel really hungry. But for the most part, it's just supper.

3. An hour after supper, I jog for an hour and a half.

That's it really. Real simple, and I'm seeing results.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I was on a similar diet (one meal) during exams once cause of the time pressure(wasn't trying to lose weight or anything), you'll lose alot of muscle and gain back the fat rapidly when you start eating normally.

2c
 

Throttle

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5 pounds in a week is probably mostly water, especially if you weren't exercising before you started. good luck!
 

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You should eat more. I know your getting some results. However, that is not healthy in the long run. Losing weight is not easy. I know, I'm still working on it but eating only one meal a day is very bad for your body. I skip breakfast only because I wake up too late sometimes however, skipping meals is not the way to go. I beg you to reconsider and I mean if you have lunch eat something. A salad and fruit or something. Not just a power bar.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bible_Belt

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A meal of mostly raw vegetables will have only a few calories and still be much better than nothing. I like making cole slaw from red cabbage when I want to get by on a low calorie diet to cut weight.
 

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donjuanapprentice01 said:
Some may raz me on this one, but I have cut down to one meal a day. Yes, flame me. I only eat supper. I skip Breakfast and Lunch now. I might grab a power bar at lunch if I feel really hungry. But for the most part, it's just supper.
Hey its your body.
 

PeeGee

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One meal a day is unsustainable. You need to eat something.

check the cutting thread in the archives. It suggests eating a deficit of 250 cals a day leading to a week-end total of 1750. Coupled with exercising to burn 250 cals a day, you burn 3500 cals a week, which is a lbs of fat

There are other factors but it's the most safe way.
 
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