"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How I see the world

playa99

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I know all the older DJ's will be thinking wtf a 15 year old posting about his views on the world, he's too young to post on these things, he should be posting sh*t in the HS forum, blah. blah but im just asking you to hear me out


my viewpoint is that the world has got lazy, mainly due to technology, think about we don't have to go to a shop to buy our food, we can do it online and have it delivered to our house, avoiding social contact and oppurtunities, infact we dont have to leave our houses to do anything. haha u can meet women online,buy houses, name it you can get it. anyone to prove me wrong well ill give you a little sticker lol. 50 years ago it wasnt like this, most men in their villages were brought up in poverty, or had to work their fvcking balls off to get to where they wanted to go, they had developed mental balls of steel by the time they were 18, they had to do it all for themselves, one chance, one shot, thats all they got, and they had to do it, without it they had no life they would be on the streets no money fvck all.

nowadays theres always a way out, you can go on the dole and earn more money than some people who are working there balls off, you dont have to be tough any more, we have no great war, no aim, to be successfull in this world you gotta be tough and determined with them 2 qualities you will get as far as you want to in life.


ONTO THE LADIES

the world of women has drastically changed, 100 years ago women had no rights, they were kinda like an AFC of the world, they were dependent on men to get by, kinda like the AFC is dependent on being around the girl he's infatuated in, but like the transition of AFC to DJ the roles of the infatuated girl and the AFC have switched, women don't need us to be successful anymore and now we are on the search of the perfect woman to satisfy our dirty needs:up: and then this leads to pedestals and just the downward spiral to AFC world. And how girls know it. look at most girly songs nowadays theyre all about the guy chasing the girl and uncertainty about whether hes gonna get her or not and most songs written by men are about them having their hearts ripped out by women and it shows in everyday life as we idolise these singers. i think that if youre gonna be successful with the ladies you need to have mental toughness as you fight against pedestals and make the girl want you, its easy enough to do just read the best articles on sosuave
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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playa99

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lol where were you from in manchester?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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