luciferianxx
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Youve met this girl, things seem magical, she seems to be an awesome docile good looking sweetheart and seems to follow what you say. It's an amazing connection.
She throws her body at you, tells you she loves you and mirrors exactly the way you are, she will mirror your best qualities and you will love it, the sex will come early and often and you will feel like you never want it to end.
Then some behaviours will begin to show up, random guys, strange foreigner friends, maybe she self harms, lives in a grandiose world, some childhood drama and strained relationships with her father or mother or divorce.
You rationalise maybe that's what makes her so special.
If you haven't heard about borderline, get a beer and grab a chair.
This girl is the most insidious creature ever, she doesn't love you and she doesn't love herself either, she's using you for her own needs. If you are a narcissist like me you are probably using her too but don't know it.
The thing is she will turn you inside out, normal game doesn't work on her.
Your ego will be turned inside out if you are codependent or normal.
It's important never to engage with such women let alone marry or get into an ltr with one.
If you have found yourself into the clutches of one, she will put up emotional manipulation and ego stroking and everything to let you stay unless she's done with you herself. Understand this she doesn't love you, it's either your need for female validation or the narcissist to make her your b1tch that is keeping you around.
She will compliment you in ways which you don't believe to be true or unnecessary. Your gut will recognise this, but you are thinking with your little head.
She will lie or cheat or you will get so ****ed with her disrespect that you'll dump her yourself.
Immediate slandering will follow. Probable suicide gestures threats. She will never put blame on herself and put everything on you.
Her flirting, cheating etc will never amount to anything. She can't put the blame on herself.
Walk away disengage. AND BLOCK HER. Pick up those pieces. You won. You are NO DOORMAT. Your respect for yourself needs to go up. You banged her brains out, you did every sort of **** you wanted her to.
You don't need false rape allegations or pregnancy scares or any domestic violence ****.
To save face she will do whatever she can to avoid putting the blame on her, her fragile ego can't tolerate that.
It took me a lot of reading and contact to understand what happened.
Laugh at yourself for the **** you put up with, fix yourself and pity her as the cloud lifts, she will keep bouncing here and there trying to manipulate guys just the way she tried on you. Let them all learn the hard way.
I got out in a couple of months, banged her brains. Many stay stuck for years.
She's not marriage material or short term or long term or nothing. Nothing is worth the aftermath of the breakup. MAYBE a pump and dump but keep it wrapped and go ghost.
She throws her body at you, tells you she loves you and mirrors exactly the way you are, she will mirror your best qualities and you will love it, the sex will come early and often and you will feel like you never want it to end.
Then some behaviours will begin to show up, random guys, strange foreigner friends, maybe she self harms, lives in a grandiose world, some childhood drama and strained relationships with her father or mother or divorce.
You rationalise maybe that's what makes her so special.
If you haven't heard about borderline, get a beer and grab a chair.
This girl is the most insidious creature ever, she doesn't love you and she doesn't love herself either, she's using you for her own needs. If you are a narcissist like me you are probably using her too but don't know it.
The thing is she will turn you inside out, normal game doesn't work on her.
Your ego will be turned inside out if you are codependent or normal.
It's important never to engage with such women let alone marry or get into an ltr with one.
If you have found yourself into the clutches of one, she will put up emotional manipulation and ego stroking and everything to let you stay unless she's done with you herself. Understand this she doesn't love you, it's either your need for female validation or the narcissist to make her your b1tch that is keeping you around.
She will compliment you in ways which you don't believe to be true or unnecessary. Your gut will recognise this, but you are thinking with your little head.
She will lie or cheat or you will get so ****ed with her disrespect that you'll dump her yourself.
Immediate slandering will follow. Probable suicide gestures threats. She will never put blame on herself and put everything on you.
Her flirting, cheating etc will never amount to anything. She can't put the blame on herself.
Walk away disengage. AND BLOCK HER. Pick up those pieces. You won. You are NO DOORMAT. Your respect for yourself needs to go up. You banged her brains out, you did every sort of **** you wanted her to.
You don't need false rape allegations or pregnancy scares or any domestic violence ****.
To save face she will do whatever she can to avoid putting the blame on her, her fragile ego can't tolerate that.
It took me a lot of reading and contact to understand what happened.
Laugh at yourself for the **** you put up with, fix yourself and pity her as the cloud lifts, she will keep bouncing here and there trying to manipulate guys just the way she tried on you. Let them all learn the hard way.
I got out in a couple of months, banged her brains. Many stay stuck for years.
She's not marriage material or short term or long term or nothing. Nothing is worth the aftermath of the breakup. MAYBE a pump and dump but keep it wrapped and go ghost.
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