"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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'How I learnt to Stop the Lies and Love the Game'

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Getting a Clue 101

"Imagination is the one weapon in the war against reality"
-Jules de Gaultier

Looking at the things people are saying at the moment, it is clear there is a problem. This is ment to be a happy place, a place where guys who bang a lot of chicks can come and refine their skills, and a place where people can learn how to play the game, and how to find self-worth and ultimately self-actualisation. I liken it to a huge, multi-continental support group.

Now, take your cyber cigars and you e-whiskey and join the group circle. What is up for discussion?

'Metrosexuality'
'Pink Shirts'
'Tom Cruise'
'The AFC-ivity of taking a girl to see a movie'
'I'm concidering cold approaches- help!'
'Virgins! Rise and kill your female oppressors!'
'I want to do bootcamp but have no friends or boots.'
'Insulting girls make good sexy [sic]?'

:mad: Oh Dear.
And it was all going so well. Anyway, there is obviously something that people haven't quite grasped yet that means people not only ask about crap, but inevitably there is a huge argument about it afterwards.

But What?

Confidence? Mindset? Manners? Well, perhaps, but look back to what makes people clueless about women in the first place...there we go!

IGNORANCE!

Yes! Perhaps you thought that was an inspirational quote at the begining? No! That's a pile of crap! The only weapon in the war against imagination and self delusion is reality! And it's time to take a deep gulp of sanity water folks...

(Optional Reading: Who's to blame for the deceit that makes people AFCs and/or bad conversationalists? Well, I guess you could say society, but it's a moot point. The fact is that people here may have great confidence, great mindset, but as they are still ignorant, they can't grasp reality. When you can do that- Well, to name a couple of things you won't piss people off as much, you'll be happy, unstressed, be able to read women like an apple pie recipe, and become successful in whatever you choose. Why don't people see the lies? It is because their 'knowledge' is based on 'coherence'. All their wrong ideas serve to support one another, so when a truth is found, it is discarded.)

And so: The big 7 lies that will keep you down:

1: Good and Bad (Morality)
We seem compelled to infuse morality into all we do. From straight up murder to dating a girl 3 years below us in age. 'This is wrong', 'That is noble' we cry out. Well, thankfully there is no such thing. Killing a child is no more a moral decision than putting on a shirt. Of course, there are far better reasons to put on a shirt, and tons of great reasons not to kill children, but the fact remains it's not a moral decision. If morality were to exist, would it not be constant? Yet it is ever changing, and killing another man is often concidered morally right. So, next time you want to know whether dating a girl of X age is 'right', instead ask yourself what reasons you have for doing/ not doing it.

2: Free Will
Ask yourself this: why did you not understand women and act what we call as an AFC? Why are you reading this? Why do you seek sex? Free will? Hah! To act feely, removed from a chain of cause and effect is meaningless. You act because of reasons. You are caused in your life, caused to be here -now- reading this. You may have had options to do other things, but you would never have done them, for the reasons were not as compelling. Free will is a chimera, a phrase without meaning. So, next time you want to flame another for their opinion or action, concider that they are this way because they are caused to be. Concider then helping them to shake off their conditioning and be happier. Remember 'If you were in their shoes you would do exactly the same'.

3: Absolutes
Are you an AFC? Is Tom Cruise a Don Juan? Is Pook a Player? Is Cloud a Metro? All questions which are totally pointless. Here's a revelation: Don Juan's don't exist, and if they did- they wouldn't say they were. All we have here are guys who are alright at getting girls, and guys who don't succeed as often. You don't 'level up' like a **** computer game- get back into reality. If you stop trying to label all that is around you, enforce generalizations, and create absolutes, you will understand the world isn't an analogue computer programme. So don't search for a Don Juan role model, just understand that everything flows and all you need to do is make your lot better.

4: Responsibility
You will have had it stuck down your throats from a very early age that you must do yourself and others proud. That you are somehow born into obligations, into shackles, that you will and must gain honour by fulfilling these: towards your family, country, yourself. What pride is their to be gained by completeing something you are forced to do anyway?! The truth is you owe no allegiance to any body, not even yourself. I'm not saying that you shouldn't look after those that you choose to, and complete the things you choose to do, but you must never think that you have no options. Thus, you owe your girl nothing, ever. What you give to her is given out of decision. The weight of resposibility is a crippling burden of empty space for those who wish to bear it.

5: Exclusive Belief
I am an athiest. This is no less a belief than being a theist. I have felt a need in the past to 'educate' others that belief in a god is wrong and illogical. Of course that was a stupid thing to do. The masquerade of the excusitivity of belief is probably why 'religion & politics' are banned from polite discussion. If you believe in god, Christianity for example, then you will have reasons for not believing in the gods of Hinduism, Islam and Judaism. Those reasons are exactly the same as the ones they will give for not sharing your belief. Understand beliefs and opinions are like treasure maps to unatanable gold. You may think your's is right, but that doesn't mean someone can't hold a map contradictory to yours. Debating the subject is little more than mental burping the purple veined fcuk stick.

6: Worth
All that needs to be said here is that nothing can add or subtract to your worth as a human being (which is grossly overestimated by the way). The weak man believes others are worth more than him; the angry, arrogant or self-doubting man reasures himself that all others are below him; the happy man sees himself on level pegging with infants and heros. You're not better than the newbie that just showed up, so how about you try and improve the company you will be keeping?

7: Correlations (Cause & Effect)
Here's a very, VERY simple and great way to get this point across. A guy is good with the ladies. He dresses well, is funny, has a good job and can dance. Therefore, to be good with the ladies one must A) Dress well, B) Be funny, C) Have a good job and D) Be able to dance. Now, I know some of you will be sitting there thinking 'Hey, that doesn't seem right...'. NO ****! This is an inductive jump, a correlation that masquerades as an example of cause and effect; of entailment. The man's success and characteristics are BOTH effects: the cause is his self-confidence. This is an example: look in the world. Grooming products: Look good, get girls; Cars: drive fast, feel young; the general view that money and women will equal happiness. All these are cases where an two effects of a cause(young guys drive fast cars and feel young, confident people are happy and successful) are mashed together to fool you. Most of the time it works. Understand this, and you'll never have to ask if doing an action is 'AFC' or not. It's not what you do, it's why you do it; if you want to learn.




So there's a start. It's by no means an end. Think it through when you post at least, and at best apply it to your life, to your women, and to your future. Remember: reality isn't scary- it just is:D!
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You Know Cloud....Can I tell you something

That shyt you just posted....has got to be....the most...

TRUTHFUL SHYT I HAVE EVER HEARD ON THIS WEBSITE.

They might flame you, but please, for all the newbies and AFcs on this board, DONT STOP POSTING.

PVSSY-EATER OUT
 

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I am sorry, but damn it, EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ THIS THREAD...This thread, sums up, what I have been trying to point out, but instead, got flamed for and even PRL got kicked off the site for. I said one time, that I wanted to shut this site down, and the reason I said that, was just covered in this thread, only Cloud could explain and say it better than I can....hahaha....

GOD DAMN IT....Read this thread twice.


PVSSY-EATER IS REALLY OUT THIS TIME
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER

PVSSY-EATER IS REALLY OUT THIS TIME
If only it were true...


Cloud: Excellent post. Some good ideas in there. The only quam I have with your post was the last point about everyone being equal. Now we all know that that is complete bullshyt. I'm not speaking about people in this forum, I'm speaking of the entire world.

For instance, one blond white girl goes missing in Aruba and has half the FBI over there searching. Yet, I'm sure there have been a number of murders of young black women right here in North America that barely have a single detective working them.

When a white child goes missing in the US, there's a nationwide alert. The child is on the news every night. Thousands and thousands of dollars are being spent searching for this one missing child. Yet, thousands of african children die every day from malnutrition. Why not take the $100,000 that was spent searching for that one(probably dead anyways) child and save the lives of a thousand ethiopian children?

Why does the President of the U.S. have the best security in the world? Why, in the case of a nuclear war, would he be shuttled into an underground bunker, while the rest of us are left to be cooked by the bomb?

All men(and women) are NOT created equal. Some have more value to society than others. If you don't believe me, Buy a $2000 suite, get a haircut. Go around town to various stores/ businesses and see how you're treated. Now put on some torn jeans and let your hair grow unkempt. Go around and see how you're treated.

Society places different values on people. It's sad but true. While it's a nice thought that everyone is worth the same, it simply doesn't apply in the real world.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by italostud
If only it were true...
Why does the President of the U.S. have the best security in the world? Why, in the case of a nuclear war, would he be shuttled into an underground bunker, while the rest of us are left to be cooked by the bomb?

All men(and women) are NOT created equal. Some have more value to society than others. If you don't believe me, Buy a $2000 suite, get a haircut. Go around town to various stores/ businesses and see how you're treated. Now put on some torn jeans and let your hair grow unkempt. Go around and see how you're treated.
You've misunderstood me totally. The fact that society says not everyone is equal and that 'some have more value to society' just goes to prove that it is a heavily preached lie.

That racist crap is exactly the kind of madness that these seemingly 'coherent' truths propagate. How is the U.S. president worth more than me? He isn't. Stick us both in a blank room and we are totally equal. I know you can see what I'm saying though, you can see that what is happening is inherently wrong (not in a moral sense, but in the sense that it is based on a lie). It's down to you though, you need to reject the conditioning (difficult concidering even our language serves to reinforce the lie).

PVSSY-EATER, that is crazy you say that because I was reading some of your posts and that's what gave me the idea for the thread! I could tell that there was a whole bunch of things you have been trying to get out- not only a frustration at the quality of the forum but a kinda anger at the uncertainty of life, in that pvssy and money don't = happiness. ****! Correlations! That's number 7! Hahahaha, I've been racking my brain for that one and had given up- right: EDIT time. Cheers for the good vibes too, makes it worth it when you strike a chord with someone. That goes for you too Hound_of_Love.

Keep the objections coming children.
 

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Was the US president born the president?
 

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Come on guys, common sense, he is not saying that the U.S. president was born the president. He is not saying tom Cruise was born rich, or Michael Jordan was born as the greatest ball player of all time, but he is saying that......at least in this country anyway, we are all born with the same opportunites. If this guy could become successful, I can too. It is just our minds and our social conditioning from our childhoods that keep us down. And I still dont get this one thing about this site, why does it seem like every time somebody posts a quality thread, you guys try to start a flame war on it? Are you guys bored and need somebody to start argueing with, I dont really see the point to it? It is one thing to add to the discussion, or, say that the discussion should be directed this way or another, but guys, seriously, grow up with the flame war stuff.

PVSSY-EATER DAMN IT..... IS OUT
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Was the US president born the president?
Actually kinda...

Well he was determined to become the US president so in a way he was. But then that's talking about identity and I was very close to sticking that on the list aswell. I could try and get ten, rival pooks 10 commandments which I maintain aren't that good.

But anyway, the point is that sure- he can be very successful and build himself up all he likes, but he's still on the same level as every other human on the planet.

Why? Because we're all human. Sure, he may be richer than me, and be more athletic than a cripple, he may even be better at basketball that MJ (never seen GWB ball...) but that doesn't make him worth more. It doesn't increase his intrinsic, unchaning worth as a human being. Acid test- stab him and he still bleeds.

What's constructive about saying this? If you accept that you will never be above or below anyone else, nor can you make yourself a more 'intrinsicly expencive individual', you will realise three big things:

1) You aren't getting any better on an intrinsic level so there is no point in having a low self esteem (low self esteem about what?)

2) You can compare yourself to other people all you like but you'll always come out equal (oops! there goes jealousy out the ****ing window!)

3) Some people are good at stuff, and some people aren't. Some will learn to be better, some will let an attribute fall into ruin. Doesn't make you a worse or better person, just means you can do more things.

Usually we don't agree, but Jesus say's I'm right. Damn I want that on a T-Shirt...:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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