"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How i got this girls #, funny and kinda stupid

stoner1129

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So there's this girl in my chemisty class and her name is j. I'd try talkin to her but it always seemed like she'd never open up, either that i suck at talkin. She always gives me IOI's and as a plus she has one of the nicest pairs i've ever seen lol.
So anyways i get this text from someone and i ask them who it is and they say their name is j also but they had texted the wrong number and it wasn't the one in my class.
So one day i'm thinkin of how to get her number because i'm not gonna end the year like last year with not really meetin anyone new or gettin numbers.
Well i start thinkin about the text and i get this idea to have my friend text me and say he was j. So i obviously knew it wasn't her and when it came to chemistry i asked her about it jokingly and playin around(i messed up and came off as a little to serious).
The convo went a little somethin like this it was like a week ago and i kinda forgot some.
Me:hey i got this text and i was wonderin if it was you(hand her my phone)
J:nope not my number
Me: oh yes you're lyin
J:ha no i don't even have my phone today
Me: Dang well what's your number then (hand her the phone again)
So she puts her number in and after that she looks at me and gives this BIG smile.
It's an easy one to do and will probably work good if you aren't very ballsy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dj_killa

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Of course, this will work only if you know her name and she's around you quite often, like in a class or at workplace.

Kind of sneaky though...
 

Prodigy746

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She probobly knew what you were doing from the start of conversation. Girls are not stupid, you should have just talked to her about a random subject and say something like this ... "You seem like a cool girl let me get your number and we can hang out sometime" .. thats way cooler than pretending that she texted you. Whats important is that you got her number and you are young you will get better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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