Background : known this girl for a year, was always really close friends with her but never saw her as anything more. I had massive oneitis for her house mate and was a COMPLETE AFC. So I never got anywhere with her friend.
After this oneitits it lead me to game. I completely changed the way I acted around women. This girl had started losing some weight and started to look hot, we were out on a night out a few days ago and I managed to kiss close multiple times.
How I did it:
1. It takes time - getting out of FZ is NOT easy.
2. Bring up sex in conversation - You can do this by innuendos, talking about girls you've been with, make it up if you have to. This creates sexual tension. I was also being pretty crude when I spoke to her, SOI's if you will. We somehow got into a conversation about how she was going to give me a BJ next to a pond. It was said in a humorous way but got her thinking about us doing sexual acts together.
3. Following on from this, make her jealous - talk with other girls, get with other girls, tell her about this. This makes her jealous. She thinks why are you not flirting with her. It also makes you look like a man and a hunter.
4. Don't be a nice guy - I was always nice with girls I liked and it gets you NOWHERE. You've got to tease her. Don't agree with everything she says. Call her names and use push-pull tactics. This creates a challenge and also nice guys are boring. You've got to be fun!
5. Kino, Kino, Kino - You must increase physical contact. hold her hand when you walk through a club. Rest your hand on her back or arm when you talk to her. slap her bum. Read up on how to use kino efficiently
After the night I managed to go back with her. We were spooning and I was wondering my hands. She didnt like this and kept pulling my hand away. I didnt get to fvck and maybe this will come in time. Anyone have any advice on this?
After this oneitits it lead me to game. I completely changed the way I acted around women. This girl had started losing some weight and started to look hot, we were out on a night out a few days ago and I managed to kiss close multiple times.
How I did it:
1. It takes time - getting out of FZ is NOT easy.
2. Bring up sex in conversation - You can do this by innuendos, talking about girls you've been with, make it up if you have to. This creates sexual tension. I was also being pretty crude when I spoke to her, SOI's if you will. We somehow got into a conversation about how she was going to give me a BJ next to a pond. It was said in a humorous way but got her thinking about us doing sexual acts together.
3. Following on from this, make her jealous - talk with other girls, get with other girls, tell her about this. This makes her jealous. She thinks why are you not flirting with her. It also makes you look like a man and a hunter.
4. Don't be a nice guy - I was always nice with girls I liked and it gets you NOWHERE. You've got to tease her. Don't agree with everything she says. Call her names and use push-pull tactics. This creates a challenge and also nice guys are boring. You've got to be fun!
5. Kino, Kino, Kino - You must increase physical contact. hold her hand when you walk through a club. Rest your hand on her back or arm when you talk to her. slap her bum. Read up on how to use kino efficiently
After the night I managed to go back with her. We were spooning and I was wondering my hands. She didnt like this and kept pulling my hand away. I didnt get to fvck and maybe this will come in time. Anyone have any advice on this?