SweetSassyMalasy
Don Juan
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Ok fellas here is the deal i am an slightly above average guy in averyway. Have not had a girlfriend in a long time but over the years I spent dating a particular type of a female. The type of woman all of us want to fukc but know deep down that somehow she is better than we are that even if she gave us a shot it would be only a matter of time before she would figure out that you are looser and not worth her time.
I felt the same way but I stuck with it for 4 years going out on dates that were doomed from the very begining simply because the girl was gourgeous in every way and I was seemingly just another guy.
Over 30 dates with hot women that got absolutely no where have finally paid off. From every failure I learned, and made adjustments the next time. Whatever it was that broke the deal on one occassion I was determined not to repeat the mistake. Yes 30 dates might seem like a lot but I have become so comfortable with dating that I no longer have bad dates, even if there is no real connection or chemistry I am able to creat that feeling for the girl. What does it take?
Lots and lots of failure. It sound cliche but believe me it is so true. Do not be afraid to ask out girl you know you can't get. Ask, go out with them, write down what u did wrong if you have to, and improve your game.
HERE IS WHAT I LEARNED:
17-21 year old hot girls are much different from older females, you can't date them with the same mindset. Here is why. These girls have had so few experiences to look back on that whatever happend to them in their past it is still very fresh. They judge quickly, and they test you and tell their girlfriends how you did. They do not decide most of the time if they want to continue to see you. Their friends decide that for them. As soon as you leave the date good or bad, they are on the phone with their girls discussing every little thing you did.
What is the key? Pass the tests. What are some tests?
1. "You said you work out it doesn't look that way!"
2. "You are kinda short."
3. "Little beer belly ha?"
4. "So you still live at home?"
5. "You're too nice"
And the list goes on. IF YOU TAKE THESE AS INSLUTS you blew it. All of these are tests to see how you would react. If a girl criticizes you on the date DO NOT get defencive, remember to stay comfortable with who you are and she will feel comfortable being with you even though you may not be a supermodel looking guy.
I felt the same way but I stuck with it for 4 years going out on dates that were doomed from the very begining simply because the girl was gourgeous in every way and I was seemingly just another guy.
Over 30 dates with hot women that got absolutely no where have finally paid off. From every failure I learned, and made adjustments the next time. Whatever it was that broke the deal on one occassion I was determined not to repeat the mistake. Yes 30 dates might seem like a lot but I have become so comfortable with dating that I no longer have bad dates, even if there is no real connection or chemistry I am able to creat that feeling for the girl. What does it take?
Lots and lots of failure. It sound cliche but believe me it is so true. Do not be afraid to ask out girl you know you can't get. Ask, go out with them, write down what u did wrong if you have to, and improve your game.
HERE IS WHAT I LEARNED:
17-21 year old hot girls are much different from older females, you can't date them with the same mindset. Here is why. These girls have had so few experiences to look back on that whatever happend to them in their past it is still very fresh. They judge quickly, and they test you and tell their girlfriends how you did. They do not decide most of the time if they want to continue to see you. Their friends decide that for them. As soon as you leave the date good or bad, they are on the phone with their girls discussing every little thing you did.
What is the key? Pass the tests. What are some tests?
1. "You said you work out it doesn't look that way!"
2. "You are kinda short."
3. "Little beer belly ha?"
4. "So you still live at home?"
5. "You're too nice"
And the list goes on. IF YOU TAKE THESE AS INSLUTS you blew it. All of these are tests to see how you would react. If a girl criticizes you on the date DO NOT get defencive, remember to stay comfortable with who you are and she will feel comfortable being with you even though you may not be a supermodel looking guy.
