"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Victory Unlimited

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Yo Troops,


I have found that the two main things that make any PREMEDITATED plan to bag women AFC or Creepy are the ideas' original conception and it's subsequent execution.

Now, if a man HAS to resort to coming up with elaborate schemes as his ONLY option for drawing women into his life, I would agree that he most definitely needs to do more INTERNAL work on himself.

However, if a strategy, a scheme, a master plan, etc. is just ONE of many options at that same man's disposal, then I would venture to say that all he has done is to WISELY leverage his resources towards his own benefit.

Pimps call this frontin' your clout. Pick up artists call this a further-reaching form of peakcocking. And many HERE can look at it as just another form of PREEMPTIVE "amoging".

When a man has the external resources to lift himself above the crowd of OTHER men in a potentially positive way, what he has done is created for himself what I call THE PODIUM EFFECT-----he has elevated himself ABOVE his competition.

By orchestrating a personal publicity stunt, by engaging in a "classy" form of self-promotion, a man is able to shift ALL EYES ON HIM. Once this preliminary goal is accomplished, the confidence, the "credentials", and the COMMAND that THAT man exhibits will tell the tale of how well he comes across, and how successfully he completes his mission.

The type of strategy that WSB has outlined in this thread is no different than what a Hollywood Agent would do to generate publicity for one of his clients:

"Win a date with ORLANDO BLOOM tonite while he's in town for one night only promoting the new Pirates of the Carribean movie!"

The only difference HERE is that WSB is "secretly" acting as HIS OWN agent.:up:

If he gets more dates as a result, then he WINS. And if he gets more publicity and clients for his gym, he STILL wins. The proposition is a WIN-WIN if it's been done CORRECTLY. You see, there's really no such thing as an AFC or Creepy plan IF it's been well thought out AND executed with precision. But it IS very important that NO ONE knows that WSB is also the WIZARD of his own Ozfest.

Remember soldiers, the ONLY real valuable effect that spontaneity has on the mind of a woman comes from the level of ENJOYMENT that she receives from experiencing it. So therefore, if a man is able to control certain outcomes, or is able to write the code of MATING/MEETING matrix himself, the better his chances will be for providing her with her "spontaneity" fix.

Read the above two sentences AGAIN.

One more thing: If I had a quarter for every woman at a booksigning that I ended up dating who "thought" I picked her out of the crowd "by chance"---------I'd ALREADY be making JOHN GRISHAM money by now...LOL


March on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cesare Cardinali

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Victory wrote:
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"The type of strategy that WSB has outlined in this thread is no different than what a Hollywood Agent would do to generate publicity for one of his clients:

"Win a date with ORLANDO BLOOM tonite while he's in town for one night only promoting the new Pirates of the Carribean movie!""

Actually that's not true Victory. This was not "win a date with bill" it was "win a free concert". And using the concert as the bait is not different than paying a chick to go out with you. The only difference is that the concert is more indirect and "fools" the girl, whereas offering her $300 for a date would scrare her away. Both methods though are AFC because the man is simply unable to attract a girl and get her to *want* to be asked out.
 
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