"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How I fooled 2 chicks. Pretending to be a foreigner.

IRKMAN

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I have been living in holland for 1 month now. I have been recently walking the streets and just goin up to girls. I always speak to them in english. Eventho I know dutch. I went up to 2 girls today. and I said ´´do you girls speak english?´´ they said ´´ yea´´ ´´ And I said I´m new here and I was wondering where are the best clubs at. And they explained. We were having convo and I could notice positive bodylanguage. And one of them even said in dutch to the other girl that I´m cute. Without even knowing that I can understand .I was like haha right in the trap. So I said immediately we should hangout later tonight. And got digits. I was even throwing in some dutch in there and they were like. ´´hey that´s pretty good´´ And I explained I´m trying to learn the language haha priceless

Its a great tactic were you pretend that your a foreigner. Its so easy to open up girls.that way.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a Shot Away

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That's awesome, if you know two languages. I wish I could do that. Faking an accent might be a bit of a stretch, especially if they start asking you specifics about your supposed home country.
 

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Yep, its a great thing to do, loving it.

I've lived in Japan a while, and even though I'm obviously not Japanese, I can always pretend not to understand a word when actually I know exactly what people are saying. Its awesome :D
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
That's awesome, if you know two languages. I wish I could do that. Faking an accent might be a bit of a stretch, especially if they start asking you specifics about your supposed home country.
Yea haha. I said that I´m attending international school . and I said I was from miami whaha. Girls usually get intrigued when you say your foreign I noticed. they start to asking you bunch of questions. And it helps being a great liar.
 

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I can feel you.. I used to do this sh1t, here's a thread i posted before

Flashgame: Gimmick I

When you're foreigner, b1tchshield goes down very fast and everything you do is perceived as normal and high value behavior. So i recommand everyone to give one shot to this type of game but don't get too much into it. If you do it once, its ok. But if you adapt this kind of game, a game based on lies, will send you backward in the progress.

Peace, DTP
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just a Shot Away said:
That's awesome, if you know two languages. I wish I could do that. Faking an accent might be a bit of a stretch, especially if they start asking you specifics about your supposed home country.
LOL my buddy tried to do that, he copped a british accent that was pretty good, until we ran into a real british girl who called him out by asking him a ton of questions and called him on his accent. Priceless.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
I can feel you.. I used to do this sh1t, here's a thread i posted before

Flashgame: Gimmick I

When you're foreigner, b1tchshield goes down very fast and everything you do is perceived as normal and high value behavior. So i recommand everyone to give one shot to this type of game but don't get too much into it. If you do it once, its ok. But if you adapt this kind of game, a game based on lies, will send you backward in the progress.

Peace, DTP
Yea baby it works wonders. I can speak english spanish and dutch.Fortunately . I feel like such a pimp here. I went to the city awhile ago. And approached 2 hot girls they were sisters. And man everything I said came out as funny. 1 was really into me. the other one was bit shy. But she was laughing like crazy but constantly looking away and she had her arms crossed. why is this?

I have a technique that I use that when we are talking I take a step back. Like I´m moving out of the convo zone. If the girl is interested she takes a step forward to come closer and the other girl did. She later said hey You should take my number. haha this is so awesome. When I use to approach girls talking dutch they always put that shield. like you said. Being foreigner breaks that shield.
 

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So where you from before you lived in Holland? And where abouts in Dutchland are you located?
I am orignally from Colombia but I lived almost all my life in Aruba. I´m living in Utrecht.

So your from amsterdam? haha awesome city man. my favorite place to party.
Het is te gek daar.xp We need to go pickup girls man. I might need a wing:D
So many pretty girls in holland.

Groetjes
 

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DOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was at work the other night perfecting my Irish accent.... And was thinkin this WOULD be a great way to score some new field practice... Thanks for lettin me know it works.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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justkyle said:
DOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was at work the other night perfecting my Irish accent.... And was thinkin this WOULD be a great way to score some new field practice... Thanks for lettin me know it works.

Dude thats awesome man.

I last year I went to brasil. I made out with a girl on my first night. I suggest you people go to brasil. you will score like crazy man. But guys be sure to wrap your **** up. heh

Have fun man.. and don´t forget to report back how it went.
 

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am I the only one thats completely against lying to get a girl... lol - its one thing to play around and joke but to fool them into thinking your something you obviously not is kind of disturbing.

whats next.. walk around with a porsche keychain?
 

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the305 said:
am I the only one thats completely against lying to get a girl... lol - its one thing to play around and joke but to fool them into thinking your something you obviously not is kind of disturbing.

whats next.. walk around with a porsche keychain?

You sound like an afc.. In life you have to cheat sometimes to get what you want.
Nothing wrong with it
 

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IRKMAN said:
You sound like an afc.. In life you have to cheat sometimes to get what you want.
Nothing wrong with it
That's debatable and completely dependable on what your goals are. If your goal is to pump'n'dump, then lying is in my opinion justified. If your goal is some more sustainable, you're shooting yourself in the foot with lies that size.

So, depending on your game type and preferred outcome, it depends on whether it's a good or bad idea.

As for sarging with a wing: I both work and study in Utrecht, so I suppose we go hook up and go day gaming. I hate club game because my brain is wired in such a ****ty way that sounds turn into a giant pile of undistinguishable mess and I'm unable to properly follow people, even with earplugs and screaming.
 

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SandHawk said:
That's debatable and completely dependable on what your goals are. If your goal is to pump'n'dump, then lying is in my opinion justified. If your goal is some more sustainable, you're shooting yourself in the foot with lies that size.


As for sarging with a wing: I both work and study in Utrecht, so I suppose we go hook up and go day gaming. I hate club game because my brain is wired in such a ****ty way that sounds turn into a giant pile of undistinguishable mess and I'm unable to properly follow people, even with earplugs and screaming.
Your right man.. but I love the night game even more.. Its more fun to me.
Night game is more direct tho. so I usually go for the kiss a lot during night game. but lets say we can go day game and ask the girls to meet at a club or something.
And also we can always tell the girls lets go outside of the club.easy

But I wanna work on my day game as well. So it would be great. I currently in Amersfoort,Utrecht tho. hook me up with your digits man.. we can arrange something and go hunting. doei
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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