"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How high is getting laid on your list of priorities?

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Plutoman said:
Meh. I can go without the sex, but I love having a date with a fun girl and getting a bit physical. Ends in sex? Eh. I'd like to get at least a make-out though.

Gotta get laid on occasion, though, but it doesn't phase me. Though if I'm drinking, my drive goes up tremendously... then I could care less about making out and just getting my **** in one of her holes.

I have to focus more on classes/work in general. I wish I could focus more on girls, but what I wish is not necessarily what needs to be done.
Heck yes this is what I think as well. I love going out with a fun girl, it just a great time. Its better if she is that fun you're concentrating on having fun and not getting laid. Then you go home with or without a lay and still feel good.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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