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How has your kindness changed over time?

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How has your experience with women opened your mind and changed your character?

I imagine we've all been kind and expendable before.
How has your kindness and other aspects of you changed over time?
 
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I used to believe in unconditional kindness to all. Now I don't. Now, I'm kind to everyone I meet. That's my GIFT to them. They get to keep the kind version of me as long as they treat me with respect and they're contributing value to me too. If they disrepect me, and depending on the situation, I then remove their privlege to my kindness and courtesy. I stop being kind and friendly with them. I treat them "professionally" if they must be encountered. But I stop serving them. They NO LONGER receive benefits from their relationship with me. THAT, gentlemen, is the price of disrespect.
 
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Dr. Whiskers said:
I used to believe in unconditional kindness to all. Now I don't. Now, I'm kind to everyone I meet. That's my GIFT to them. They get to keep the kind version of me as long as they treat me with respect and they're contributing value to me too. If they disrepect me, and depending on the situation, I then remove their privlege to my kindness and courtesy. I stop being kind and friendly with them. I treat them "professionally" if they must be encountered. But I stop serving them. They NO LONGER receive benefits from their relationship with me. THAT, gentlemen, is the price of disrespect.
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Does that make your suffer?
 
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I went from kind, taken advantage of, went into a edgy period for a while, and now I've reached nirvana. I'm back to kind, but a more mastered, mature version of it. I'm not as joking or animated anymore, but if I wanted, I could be and I wouldn't care what others think of me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i'm kind in the sense that i'm empathetic of others and concerned for their needs and wants but i'm also increasingly more selfish and blunt with people as i get older
 
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