“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How has your kindness changed over time?

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How has your experience with women opened your mind and changed your character?

I imagine we've all been kind and expendable before.
How has your kindness and other aspects of you changed over time?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I used to believe in unconditional kindness to all. Now I don't. Now, I'm kind to everyone I meet. That's my GIFT to them. They get to keep the kind version of me as long as they treat me with respect and they're contributing value to me too. If they disrepect me, and depending on the situation, I then remove their privlege to my kindness and courtesy. I stop being kind and friendly with them. I treat them "professionally" if they must be encountered. But I stop serving them. They NO LONGER receive benefits from their relationship with me. THAT, gentlemen, is the price of disrespect.
 
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Dr. Whiskers said:
I used to believe in unconditional kindness to all. Now I don't. Now, I'm kind to everyone I meet. That's my GIFT to them. They get to keep the kind version of me as long as they treat me with respect and they're contributing value to me too. If they disrepect me, and depending on the situation, I then remove their privlege to my kindness and courtesy. I stop being kind and friendly with them. I treat them "professionally" if they must be encountered. But I stop serving them. They NO LONGER receive benefits from their relationship with me. THAT, gentlemen, is the price of disrespect.
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Does that make your suffer?
 
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I went from kind, taken advantage of, went into a edgy period for a while, and now I've reached nirvana. I'm back to kind, but a more mastered, mature version of it. I'm not as joking or animated anymore, but if I wanted, I could be and I wouldn't care what others think of me.
 
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i'm kind in the sense that i'm empathetic of others and concerned for their needs and wants but i'm also increasingly more selfish and blunt with people as i get older
 
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