"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How has the success affected you?

SharinganUser

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I have been getting laid a lot in the last few months and it is putting me in a weird frame of mind. I am traveling in China and living life to the fullest right now. I just spent 3 weeks in a city that has more hot women in it than any other city in China. I went clubing a lot there and met lots of women. Not just in clubs but on the streets, anywhere. Ironically, the less I tried with the girls the more I could get.

Anyway, the girls that I thought were hot before, I don't think they are very good looking anymore. Everytime I hook up with a girl here, I end up up with a crazy story. In my world, there is no such thing as a routine pick up.

I did it in the bar, picked up a girl in another bar washroom, and had sex on top of my hostel in the middle of the day. Is this what constitutes a "normal" sex life?? I don't know.

Sometimes I don't want to go out because I *don't* want to get laid and I need to get some sleep. 6 months ago, I would have totally sacraficed sleep for sex, but not anymore.

I feel like for a long time I was struggling under water, and now I have finally come up for air. I've learned a few things here, have grown as a person and I think that meeting women won't be a problem anymore, no matter where I am in the world.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spax

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lol. You have used Chinese prostitutes?
 
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