"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How has Kobe not won an MVP?

MikeYikes122

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He is probably the best player of this generation. He deserved to win two years ago when Nash won his second, and now he is going to be overlooked when Garnett takes the award again this year.

Call me crazy, but I think if Kobe had a better reputation for being a decent guy among media and coaches, he'd already have an MVP award on his mantel. Everyone in the media bashed him because he asked to be traded from a team that wasn't trying to better itself, while KG kept his mouth shut for years about how bad Minnesota sucked and all the media ever did was beg Garnett to ask for a trade. I also don't think you can blame Kobe for being pi$$ed about wanting to leave L.A. after that story that came out in the beginning of the summer, where the Los Angeles Times quoted a source from within the Lakers as saying Kobe was the one who drove Shaq out of town. Up until that point, Kobe had been told by Mitch Kupchak and the rest of the Lakers' brass that any insinuations about him driving Shaq out of town were coming from the media.

I think he gets a worse reputation than he deserves. He kind of seems like a decent guy, and I think he is actually underrated as a basketball player. He is twice the defender Nash and Nowitzki can ever dream to be, and no one seems to recognize just how much Kobe carries his team night-in and night-out. Those other guys had really good supporting casts, while Kobe carried the Lakers to fourth place two years ago with a team that had Smush Park as its third best player. How he did not win that year was astonishing to me. He scored 81 freaking points in a game. I don't know how someone can accomplish that, win the scoring title on a sh!tty team that he had to carry and still not be considered the most valuable player.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, that season was supposed to be his... ****ing haters. Something tells me his chances are over, I wish he was younger.
 

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I'm a Celtics fan, and I think Kobe Bryant is probably the best player in the game at the moment. I've watched Paul Pierce, who isn't as good as Kobe, make crazy shots while being double or triple teamed, but Kobe, when he's on, you get the impression he could make any shot all over the court with anyone defending him.

People try to compare Lebron to Jordan, but I think Kobe's a lot better and more like Jordan.
 

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He doesn't build his team up around him like Nash or Duncan.
 

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wrong post
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was at the playoff game where Kobe did the infamous dunk on Steve Nash.

I kid you not..when Kobe went up and dunked it had to be one of the most electric plays I ever seen.

Too make it worse I am a Suns fan...but yet, I can tell you that Kobe is a very, very special player...

You are right, when Kobe is ON he is unstoppable. But then again when is he not ...


Peace
 

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probably because Kobe has a love/hate reputation, even here in LA

Lakers been playing awesome lately though, totally different team compared to last year. you guys catch the Suns game on X-mas?
 

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There may be some underlying hatred boiling because he put his meatstick in a white girls' pooper.

She claims she didn't want it though . . .


. . . right.
 
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