How hard is it to study abroad/move to a different country

[SirFratserlot]

Currently imprisoned in the USA and I want out. I'd prefer a modern speaking english country though. I'm not saying only those, but those are my top preferences.

 

[Who Dares Win]

The anglosphere is fvcked up, pointless to leave the states to move to britain or australia.

Just know that the more work you put in it and the more risks you accept and the more you are ready to leave your comfort zone, the bigger is gonna be the reward.

If you manage to move to Russia with a usefull professional profile and knowledge of the language unless you are non white, 99% of your problems in the state would disappear.

 

[popsickle]

Easy and worth it

I think I have had enough experiences abroad to answer this question.
I'm originally from Europe and went to college in North America after high school. I'm graduating soon and during my undergrad went on academic exchange to Northeast Asia and interned in 3 different countries, on 3 different continents.
I can't tell from your question if by "hard" you mean literally how difficult it is to get the paperwork done, visas etc or if you're rather speaking of psychological difficulty.
I'll answer for both:
1. In terms of practical difficulty, I'd say you can pretty much go anywhere you want without too many restrictions nowadays. If you're in college, your school certainly offers an exchange program that arranges everything for you. Once you get the letter of acceptance from your host school, getting your visa done is only a formality. Same goes for temporary working visas. Companies generally don't care (to a certain extent) where you're from when applying, so long as you fulfill their requirements. From there on, most will sponsor you for a work visa.

2. Psychological difficulty: I left the parental cocoon when I was 17 for a completely new country and I have to say everything went smoothly. To be honest you'll be having way too much fun and meeting way too many new people to think much about your life back home. Don't ever think that you can't build a new network in your new country. It all goes really fast.

Seriously, go for it. You'll meet tons of new chicks and the expat status is amazing in most places.

Cheers

 

[Wolfgang D]

The anglosphere is fvcked up, pointless to leave the states to move to britain or australia.

Just know that the more work you put in it and the more risks you accept and the more you are ready to leave your comfort zone, the bigger is gonna be the reward.

If you manage to move to Russia with a usefull professional profile and knowledge of the language unless you are non white, 99% of your problems in the state would disappear.

Funny thing, that. I know people who moved to study in Russia and lived with host families. They could not go out on the balcony and talk English, because if it became known in the neighborhood that they were "rich foreigners" the local gang would show up and smash the windows with rocks.

Heard from a girl who went to Latvia, where her parents were from. She went to a night club with relatives, and they told her to slump with her shoulders and not smile when they entered the club, otherwise people would know she was a foreigner and they would be charged extra. Later in the evening a man from the local gangster gang came to collect their "cut" and everyone treated it as something normal. If the gangs don't get the money they extort from a night club or a store, they will burn it to the ground.

My buddies in Russia mentioned the roadblocks set up here and there by the police, squeezing people for money. On the way from the city to the airport there were three roadblocks, with police banging on the window with Kalashnikovs. Again, they had to keep silent when the father in the host family lowered the window to pay the cops, because if the cops would know they were foreigners - which they labelled as "Americans" no matter where you came from - they would have to pay at least three times as much.

Though that was a decade ago, maybe the hatred and general corruption has lessened by now.


More than 60 percent of women have been sexually harassed at work. And sexual harassment in Russia is the real thing, not just a guy asking her out to dinner. Most women there say that if they want to advance in a company, they are forced to perform sexual services.

Though all is not right with the Russian women either. There is a phenomenon where young Russian women keep one guy as a "wallet" while they bang a more desirable guy. "Alpha fvcks, beta bucks", literally. The "wallet" is rewarded with hand-holding and going with the girl to the store (where he pays), things like that, raising his status in public. "I gotta call my wallet, I need a new blouse for tomorrow."

There is that strain of sadism that runs through Russian society, whether it is czarist, communist, run by oligarchs or former KGB officers. There is a reason Russia is hated by practically all of its neighbors, in particular those who have had to deal with it the most. "Russophobia", they say, was "invented in the Ukraine", but it is understandable.


If you want to go to Eastern Europe, the Baltic states are among the best places to be. Estonia in particular. Definitely do not go to Albania, but I don't think anyone would do that. Actually, talking about "Eastern Europe" like one entity makes as much sense as talking about "the Americas" as one culture.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Funny thing, that. I know people who moved to study in Russia and lived with host families. They could not go out on the balcony and talk English, because if it became known in the neighborhood that they were "rich foreigners" the local gang would show up and smash the windows with rocks.

Heard from a girl who went to Latvia, where her parents were from. She went to a night club with relatives, and they told her to slump with her shoulders and not smile when they entered the club, otherwise people would know she was a foreigner and they would be charged extra. Later in the evening a man from the local gangster gang came to collect their "cut" and everyone treated it as something normal. If the gangs don't get the money they extort from a night club or a store, they will burn it to the ground.

My buddies in Russia mentioned the roadblocks set up here and there by the police, squeezing people for money. On the way from the city to the airport there were three roadblocks, with police banging on the window with Kalashnikovs. Again, they had to keep silent when the father in the host family lowered the window to pay the cops, because if the cops would know they were foreigners - which they labelled as "Americans" no matter where you came from - they would have to pay at least three times as much.

Though that was a decade ago, maybe the hatred and general corruption has lessened by now.


More than 60 percent of women have been sexually harassed at work. And sexual harassment in Russia is the real thing, not just a guy asking her out to dinner. Most women there say that if they want to advance in a company, they are forced to perform sexual services.

Though all is not right with the Russian women either. There is a phenomenon where young Russian women keep one guy as a "wallet" while they bang a more desirable guy. "Alpha fvcks, beta bucks", literally. The "wallet" is rewarded with hand-holding and going with the girl to the store (where he pays), things like that, raising his status in public. "I gotta call my wallet, I need a new blouse for tomorrow."

There is that strain of sadism that runs through Russian society, whether it is czarist, communist, run by oligarchs or former KGB officers. There is a reason Russia is hated by practically all of its neighbors, in particular those who have had to deal with it the most. "Russophobia", they say, was "invented in the Ukraine", but it is understandable.


If you want to go to Eastern Europe, the Baltic states are among the best places to be. Estonia in particular. Definitely do not go to Albania, but I don't think anyone would do that. Actually, talking about "Eastern Europe" like one entity makes as much sense as talking about "the Americas" as one culture.

There has been a big problem with corruption in the russian federation but its not as you point it, especially after Putin made a point to fix this and used "soviet style" measures on guilt officers.

Second for what I recall in the western world we still have gangsters getting their cuts, they are called bailouts as as much as we dont have women forced to have sex in order to get a job we have men forced to lose any dignity and freedom in order to survive in a sexist society.

Third I dont recall any law in Russia which allows the russian gov to spy on his own citizens then legally assasinate them with drones or other weapon of choices without a trial, apparently most of americans dont mind such things since they believe it would happen only to "terrorists" and never to some good guy.

Forth the problems there come from criminals not from society,lawyers and the gov in general which I believe is not a soft point.

But again I dont live in the states nor the russian fed so I may miss something.

 

[corrector]

Currently imprisoned in the USA and I want out. I'd prefer a modern speaking english country though. I'm not saying only those, but those are my top preferences.

You are a black man and you are imprisoned in the USA and you are complaining that you can't get a woman. Why did you end up in jail? I know with blacks they usually don't belong there and get railroaded through the justice system. What is your story?

 

[SirFratserlot]

You are a black man and you are imprisoned in the USA and you are complaining that you can't get a woman. Why did you end up in jail? I know with blacks they usually don't belong there and get railroaded through the justice system. What is your story?

I'm not in an actual prison, but America is a prison itself. What the above poster said was so true about america. I'm also sick of the social barriers in this country and I don't want to be tricked in to working like a dog and eating like one and having to indulge myself in illusions (materialism/professional sports) to make my life look happier. Also, feminism and the media has destroyed american women and me being black just makes it harder.

 

[foreverAFC]

I'm not in an actual prison, but America is a prison itself. What the above poster said was so true about america. I'm also sick of the social barriers in this country and I don't want to be tricked in to working like a dog and eating like one and having to indulge myself in illusions (materialism/professional sports) to make my life look happier. Also, feminism and the media has destroyed american women and me being black just makes it harder.

based on your posts, i believe you will be in a real prison in the not too distant future, this will happen after you shoot up a womens aerobics class

 

[SirFratserlot]

coming from a poster named foreverafc

 

[TheCWord]

based on your posts, i believe you will be in a real prison in the not too distant future, this will happen after you shoot up a womens aerobics class

It's true, I think that if you moved countries you would find yourself having the same problems that you had in the States. That's because your real problem would have traveled with you: yourself.

Work on your mindset. All of your posts are negative and defeatist and blame blame blame. It's the girls at your school's fault, it's the States, it's feminism, it's the media.

The more people and things you blame, the more likely it is that you're the problem.

Ever hear the phrase: you meet an ass-hole in the morning, you met an ass-hole. you meet *******s all day, you're the ass-hole.

 

[foreverAFC]

coming from a poster named foreverafc

i may not be successful with women, but i realize that complaining on the internet isnt going to solve the problem, i realize i need to just keep my mouth shut and continue to work on myself

 

[SirFratserlot]

No, **** off with the it's only myself bullshvt. I'm tall, good looking, muscular, financially stable, have a car, and a college student and girls still do not give me the time of day. I have figured out that it is all a marketing demographic and I need to move somewhere where my product will be valued more. American women are nothing, but soulless devils and I do not want to put up with them anymore. Yall are free to put up with this **** for the rest of your life with your so called game, but I am off to greener pastures where a female will accept me for what I actually am. Plus, you're only a product of your environment. Off course I'm going to be *****y over girls if I can not get any of them. You can't blame a hungry man if he has not eaten. Feel free to live in a world of self denial, but do not try to bring me down to that level.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Im with OP in this last posts, we often bash guys which a re bitter toward women or society, well no fvcking wonder someone is if women and society treated him like a dog anytime he tried to do something good.

Sure the most intelligent thing is to understand whats wrong and fix it (gym, clothes, status whatever) but we're human and if pushed too much on a corner we're not gonna be happy and smile.

Also we talk about bitter men often but I bet my ass that ANY woman if was to suffer even a half of the sh1t the average men does, in terms of rejection, psychological violence and sexist bullism would cut her veins in a bath.

 

[SirFratserlot]

I'm just sick of people living in denial mode and taking all this **** up the ass like nothing. This does not only apply to women, but everything else. The government has installed in us it's own views and people will turn hostile if you try and dispute it. I feel sorry for the NSA martyr because americans will fight and cling to their masters like no other.

 

[switch]

No, **** off with the it's only myself bullshvt. I'm tall, good looking, muscular, financially stable, have a car, and a college student and girls still do not give me the time of day. I have figured out that it is all a marketing demographic and I need to move somewhere where my product will be valued more. American women are nothing, but soulless devils and I do not want to put up with them anymore. Yall are free to put up with this **** for the rest of your life with your so called game, but I am off to greener pastures where a female will accept me for what I actually am. Plus, you're only a product of your environment. Off course I'm going to be *****y over girls if I can not get any of them. You can't blame a hungry man if he has not eaten. Feel free to live in a world of self denial, but do not try to bring me down to that level.

you know nothing jon sno...i mean fratserlot. seriously man ,its the same fvcking thing everywhere,girls are all the same in every effing country.
this comes from someone who has seen many countries, not a keyjockey spurting text out of his ass based on some BS he read on some website.
if you think other countries will be any different you are wrong.very wrong.

what you are suffering from is a global pandemic.
i have the same feelings as you.every time i fvck a hor here knowing she is somebody's GF on a vacation, i just wanna bang my head against the wall
i mean some of these "travelling hors" put out so easily that its hard to believe they are commited to someone else(who is probably sitting at home 6ooo miles away,oblivious im fvking his GF)

i mean the guy works out, earns decent,is ok looking etc...but his GF goes abroad and fvcks random guys regardless.its like her BF's efforts for securing her pvssy was just BS...which it is, in the 21st century you can forget about "secured pvssy"

:yes: :yes:

 

[foreverAFC]

I'm just sick of people living in denial mode and taking all this **** up the ass like nothing. This does not only apply to women, but everything else. The government has installed in us it's own views and people will turn hostile if you try and dispute it. I feel sorry for the NSA martyr because americans will fight and cling to their masters like no other.

i hate to break it to you, but that NSA guy was most likely paid by the Chinese and the Russians to commit treason against his country and leak classified information, things arent always as they seem

 

[Mike32ct]

Im with OP in this last posts, we often bash guys which a re bitter toward women or society, well no fvcking wonder someone is if women and society treated him like a dog anytime he tried to do something good.

Sure the most intelligent thing is to understand whats wrong and fix it (gym, clothes, status whatever) but we're human and if pushed too much on a corner we're not gonna be happy and smile.

Also we talk about bitter men often but I bet my ass that ANY woman if was to suffer even a half of the sh1t the average men does, in terms of rejection, psychological violence and sexist bullism would cut her veins in a bath.

^Truth.

 

[zinc4]

you know nothing jon sno...i mean fratserlot. seriously man ,its the same fvcking thing everywhere,girls are all the same in every effing country.
this comes from someone who has seen many countries, not a keyjockey spurting text out of his ass based on some BS he read on some website.
if you think other countries will be any different you are wrong.very wrong.

what you are suffering from is a global pandemic.
i have the same feelings as you.every time i fvck a hor here knowing she is somebody's GF on a vacation, i just wanna bang my head against the wall
i mean some of these "travelling hors" put out so easily that its hard to believe they are commited to someone else(who is probably sitting at home 6ooo miles away,oblivious im fvking his GF)

i mean the guy works out, earns decent,is ok looking etc...but his GF goes abroad and fvcks random guys regardless.its like her BF's efforts for securing her pvssy was just BS...which it is, in the 21st century you can forget about "secured pvssy"

:yes: :yes:

truth, it's pretty much the same deal every where.......women are women and people are people...though there are countries such as China, Thailand and Phillipines where it is noticeably easier....though IMO you should travel or move somewhere for much bigger reasons than just women...

 

[SirFratserlot]

truth, it's pretty much the same deal every where.......women are women and people are people...though there are countries such as China, Thailand and Phillipines where it is noticeably easier....though IMO you should travel or move somewhere for much bigger reasons than just women...

didn't you read my post