"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how hard is it to get a hot blonde anyways?

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Not escorts or hookers but I mean legitimately pick one up through social circle game or cold approach or something. I notice that most of the ones I knew growing up exclusively chased after athletes and jocks. Back in my college days, I knew that guys on the sports teams and men in fraternities were the ones who were out with them. Outside of this group, I have never really seen any other kind of guys score with them. Back when I visited Europe it seemed like getting these women was pretty easy and I saw black and middle eastern looking dudes with these kinds of women, it was actually not that rare of a sighting.

Lots of guys in the USA have a "type" that falls in this category but it seems like the only guys I see having success with these women are athletes, the "bro" type of guys (fraternity party boys), and in some cases thuggish black guys (not as common as the other two).

How hard is it to get these women in the USA if you look ethnic? (middle eastern, asian, indian, etc.)
 

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I know which blondes I can score with. Its like a innate sense I have with blondes, there are the stuck up ones I have no chance with. Its not because they are out of my league. Its just their attitude and the fact that I am mixed. I know she has dated uglier guys then me, but a plain white guy can most likely game her up especially if he is the jock type. It doesn't stop me from trying.

Other white girls that are interested in Black/latino/mixed men I can attain easily.....puerto rican girls are the easiest for me......Mexicans girls ehhhhhh our personalities never seen to mix
 

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I went to the museum for one of my research project last year, and I saw a tall Indian guy (who looks fairly westernized) with a hot blonde.

It's not impossible. The fact that you hint that they are difficult to get means you are placing them on a pedestal above other women. All women get treated the same.
 

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Please take these girls off their pedastal. They're no different from other women.

All you need, just as with any other female, is to not be hideous, and have decent game.

Sure, some white chicks only want white dudes, that's their preference and their puragative. Nothing you can do about it and no reason to be butthurt.

Don't know why ethnic guys think they're the gold standard.

Sincerely,

-An Ethnic man whose fūcked many blondes
 

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By ethnic, I mean someone who is not black or white.

From what I see though, it seems like the hot blonde types rarely if ever go interracial and when they do, it is with black men, not asians, indians, and more foreign looking men. I have seen white women go for indian and asian guys but they were usually brunettes and more nerdier types if you catch my drift.

It is just that I notice that a lot of the Elisha Cuthbert types out there seem to almost exclusively go for white guys that are jocks or more the bro types. I do see some going for black guys but never for ethnic men.

Kinda puzzles me and makes me wonder if these women are even attainable for say a foreign looking dude who happens to want one and is willing to put in the work to get with one.
 

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Black men are ethnic fool.

If you meant Indians & Asians, then say Indians & Asians.

And even so, my point still stands.

I don't see the point in you saying this.

Good Game + Not Ugly/Decently Attractive = Most women who like you

And, what's the beef if white chicks don't prefer Indians or Asians? BooHoo. There's other women.
 

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you're not ethnic if you are black and plus I specified many times before these discussions are centered towards asian and indian men.

this is about getting hot white women as an asian or indian guy and how hard it is. I don't know about you but I personally don't take losses too well. It is all about getting hot white girls, that is the topic of this thread.
 

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I'd say ''hot" blondes are not too common. Yes there are loads of blondes but most are not "hot". Of the women population under 45, there probably about 10% who are blonde and hot (it might be even less). The demand is high and the supply is low so the chance of getting one, common sense says, is hard. But unless you go for it, you'll never know.

I don't live in USA so don't know how society works over there. But here in Europe if you are an ethnic guy, reasonable looking and with some money and some status, you can get a hot blonde. Money and status don't need to be mega but that of the professional classes.
 

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ThePlayedList said:
this is about getting hot white women as an asian or indian guy and how hard it is. I don't know about you but I personally don't take losses too well. It is all about getting hot white girls, that is the topic of this thread.
You are one prejudicial dude. Why is it about just 'white girls'? Personally I'd get involved with any chick of any race and nationality. The qualifying criteria is that they must be hot.
 

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Not so hard, be alpha, do what you want, flirt, dress well, smell good, be to the point, be funny and escalate.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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mangotot said:
I'd say ''hot" blondes are not too common. Yes there are loads of blondes but most are not "hot". Of the women population under 45, there probably about 10% who are blonde and hot (it might be even less). The demand is high and the supply is low so the chance of getting one, common sense says, is hard. But unless you go for it, you'll never know.

I don't live in USA so don't know how society works over there. But here in Europe if you are an ethnic guy, reasonable looking and with some money and some status, you can get a hot blonde. Money and status don't need to be mega but that of the professional classes.
Same here man, I have visited Europe a lot and when I was in countries such as Holland, Germany, and Sweden, it shocked me as to how many middle eastern/paki/brown looking guys I saw with reasonably good looking blondes. I would not say it was common but it happened to where it wasn't unheard of, like you actually saw it.



Then I come back to the USA and it is like these kinds of women are only going for the white frat bro types and on some rare occasions black guys. Maybe it is my mind playing tricks on me, perhaps the brown and asian dudes in the USA are too scared to talk to these women, but I keep getting the impression that these types of women have some serious hang up about going for anything other than a white guy or black guy.

mangotot said:
You are one prejudicial dude. Why is it about just 'white girls'? Personally I'd get involved with any chick of any race and nationality. The qualifying criteria is that they must be hot.
take that hippie bull**** elsewhere.
 

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SmooveMooves said:
Black men are ethnic fool.

If you meant Indians & Asians, then say Indians & Asians.

And even so, my point still stands.

I don't see the point in you saying this.

Good Game + Not Ugly/Decently Attractive = Most women who like you

And, what's the beef if white chicks don't prefer Indians or Asians? BooHoo. There's other women.
but this thread is about getting white girls





FOOL
 

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Dude...once u seen a hb blonde in green face make up...like that goo they put on...in sweat pants being lazy on a saturday sitting on the couch watching a movie and snacking on chips....ugggh...no thanks.
 

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_sideways_ said:
Dude...once u seen a hb blonde in green face make up...like that goo they put on...in sweat pants being lazy on a saturday sitting on the couch watching a movie and snacking on chips....ugggh...no thanks.
to me man, it is like a rite of passage type of ****. once I screw one, I will be so bored of it but I have never screwed or obtained one before.
 

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Yet another "I'm an Indian and white chick won't fvck me" thread. Meh.
 

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The problem for me is there aren't any hot blondes in the Bay. Just a bunch of ugly Asian girls and fat Hispanic chicks.

I can't wait to move to the south.
 
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