"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How hard do you try getting a girl before you just move on

Urbanyst

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I give up pretty easily.

Used to be a pandering AFC. I realized that “persistence” is for chumps. She’s either begging for my c0ck or she’s not. If she’s not, I don’t put in the effort. Women have WAY too many options these days. Going for women who aren’t interested in you makes you feel like shyt and lowers your SMV.
Persistence is another blue pill myth designed to give women more validation than they deserve. Its for idiots who think "game" matters more than VALUE.

Women decide who they want to f*ck as fast as men do. They feed into the "personality" sh*t because it gets desperate chumps with low SMV to give them loads of attention.

You really don't have to do sh*t to get laid other than try. Your success rate is directly related to your SMV which is based on your LMS.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Visionist

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I hear that if a girl likes you and you take too long to escalate/make a move there's a chance that she'll resent you for it
I can vouch for this. Any and all attempts to escalate after this cutoff point are met with "eh? No I didn't fancy you before! You're seeing what isn't there..."

Rule number one: Women lie constantly about attraction/lack therof. Never listen to a word she says. Her actions scream loudly, her words aren't worth sh!t. The amount of "I'm not looking to hookup right now" I've heard- a week later she's hooked up with Chad or Tyrone. He didn't bother asking her if she wanted to hook up, lol
 

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Nothing but truth in this thread.

I just have a normal conversation. I mostly approach girls who show me signs of interest. If I begin to sense any clear disinterest I just throw a Hail Mary and ask them over.
 

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I hear that if a girl likes you and you take too long to escalate/make a move there's a chance that she'll resent you for it

Yes but usually iam quick to make a move, i talk to her few times, ask to meet (usually on campus ) if shes cool its okay and i asks her out, if she ignores my meeting up text or avoids meeting me (like two girls did, turns out they had bfs) then i move on
 
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