jiza101
Master Don Juan
Anyone seen him in action ?? is his advice good ? How did it work for you all ?? any sticking points ?? im listening to his cd's atm
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yer im on the lounge as well, but he doesn't post much anymoreOriginally posted by Smooth Player 056
As a part of Mysterys Lounge...many guys there go regulary sarging with him....they claim he is amazing.
I have much respect for his posts. BTW if anyone doesnt know....the Shark on sosuave is someone else.
I have heard good things also on his audio program.
~smooth
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Correct, only like Mystery and the top dudes are in the REAL one, the other one isn't that good, its mainly dude asking questions.. Get in by doing a workshopOriginally posted by AsianPlayboy
There's the student Mystery Lounge... and then there's the REAL Secret Society Mystery Lounge.
But, yeah, Shark is awesome. Unfortunately, I never met the man when I was in Croatia, but my buddy OCWaterBoy did and he believed Shark to be the sh.it.
So I take it the forum is out of bounds to the general public now?Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I pm'ed guys from the old lounge...and they say...the other one is Archive only...they dont post there anymore.
Fuggit. I'll get in by becoming a great PUA and by being invited into all of those thingsOriginally posted by jiza101
Correct, only like Mystery and the top dudes are in the REAL one, the other one isn't that good, its mainly dude asking questions.. Get in by doing a workshop
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Done, check the melb lair out, we have like 40-60 guys in it, ill pm you address :woo:Originally posted by FRëSHURE
jiza101
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=87914
you're PM box is full. but check that link out. you're from Melbourne right?
LMAO "DO not be a society excuser"Originally posted by Derek Flint
Direct game rules.
No indirect "excuser" BS
And Shark's accent cracks me up.
"Are you embarrassed that your family knows that you... F*** hot Chicks?"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Nobel Prize, here I come"Originally posted by jiza101
LMAO "DO not be a society excuser"
"Society excuser go home with hand only"
ROFL WHAT ABOUT HIS EXAMPLE COMPLIMENT
"Hey sugapants, lovely legs" :crackup: :crackup: