"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How far should you go when trying to make a girl jealous?

aix237

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How far should you go making a girl jealous if you like her? i know this girl gets somewhat jealous when she sees me with another girl, i sense it for sure. she makes little comments here and there. guess thats a good sign but i want her to really come after me cause i know she knows i like her. what would happened if i fvcked another girl and she knew about it? would it turn her off? cause i like this girl that i see often. ive slept with her before but never messed around. but i feel the connection is not strong enough yet. im debating about whether i should fvck this girl that i know i could and let her know about it and see what happens.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRMoon

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As much as you need to. But remember you shouldn't "try" to make a girl jelouse. You should keep your cool, and try to maintain your plates even if it is in front of a particular girl you like. Being a DJ means you have to be somewhat aloof and uncaring as best you can to a certian extent. By letting things go and letting some issues wash out of you, you aid in your primary goal extensively.
 

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Im just worried if I fvck a girl she knows it might turn her off. If not yea shell get jealous but probably will be unwilling to be sloppy seconds. Tonight both girls will be around. Lol actually there will be three girls around. her best friend whose in town for a couple of days is clearly giving me IOI's. she wanted to fvck me the other night but i didnt.
 

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aix237 said:
but i want her to really come after me cause i know she knows i like her.
Who is the man here? YOU ARE. You should come after her, she ain't going to ask you out even if she is dying too! why? because she is a woman and she doesn't have too.

What are you waiting for? the messiah? while you are trying to figure out ways of making her jealous, she on the other hand is probably getting hit on and asked on dates with other guys.

Ask her out already because tomorrow might be too late.
 
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