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How far should kino go in the course of one night?

davelmn2003

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I was talking this girl last night in a bar. The conversation was going well. I was kind of drunk so I was particularly bold. So I started doing some kino (I was almost unconscious of it, at least initially). I put my hand on the chair she was sitting on, very close to her legs. Then as the convo was going on my hand was touching her legs and at some points I also lay my hand on her one of her legs before putting it back down next to and touching her leg. I also padded on her upper arm.

No resistence whatsoever. So my question is how far should I go with kino if no resistence is felt?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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All the way baby!!!!!!!
 

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very true--that's why I want to find out where to "draw the line" before she slaps me on the face you know what I mean. I'm not sure if she knew I was touching her either (I guess that was the whole point of kino--not to leave a strong impression that you are indeed doing the touching)?
 

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Originally posted by davelmn2003
very true--that's why I want to find out where to "draw the line" before she slaps me on the face you know what I mean. I'm not sure if she knew I was touching her either (I guess that was the whole point of kino--not to leave a strong impression that you are indeed doing the touching)?
As long as it is gradual, she won't become so shocked that she will do anything as abrupt as slapping your face. She will probably just grab your hand to slow your roll.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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