How far is too far when it comes to jealousy?

[assassin]

First of all I'd like to be a kiss ass and thank everyone for all the great advice I have read on this board. You guys kick ass

There's something I haven't learned too much about though..

Jealousy.

There are quite a few chicks that want me. I am focusing on these two chicks though. Would it be good to let them know that my ex's keep calling and that I am in demand? or should I not mention other chicks.

The reason I'm asking is because the last few chicks I've dated were immediatly turned off whenever I even talked to another chick. Of course I continued being my self and talking to whom ever I felt like but this led to the end of these relationships.

Whats the deal here with these chicks. Is this common with chicks in general or are they a select few with insecurities.

Thanks for reading.

 

[Da Game]

I think it will mostly depend on the girl. However, just as a point of respect, I don't think you should talk about other girls when you're around her... I know it pisses me off when a girl I'm trying to date keeps talking about other guys, why should it be different for girls?

I think the exception to this is if she starts talking about guys first, to make YOU jealous. Then it's only fair to respond. However, I'm not sure how well a relationship based on mutual game-playing will turn out; in my experience, when both people are acting fake, one person decides to quit trying, and it's over (the relationship, not the faking).

Jealousy games work in the short-term; i.e. to get you laid with shallow and/or dumb girls. However, if you're looking for a mature and cool girl, I think you're better off not talking about other girls when you're around her. It's just common courtesy.

 

[assassin]

Thanks for the reply. I still have a lot to learn.

 

[KillaCam1100]

Never tell a girl about another girl, I've learned from that dearly. I told one girl that really like me, that I was tryin to get back with my ex. I was a dumbass for that. I found myself with no girls, because sumtin bad happen between me and my ex, then the girl that liked me stop talkin to me. So F'ed up badly. Keep it on the down low, if one girl dump you or whatever, you got another one.


Hey! you are the Basketball Coach! If one player(girl) ain't
playin(actin) right, take her off and pull another off the bench.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

generally it is a hell of a lot better when they find out with out you telling them...