"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How far in do you stick your tongue?

yake

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Hey. How far do you go with your tongue when kissing? I seem to only be able to reach and play with the front part of a girls tongue. A lot of people speak about sticking their tongue down a girl's throat. Is this just overstating it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mpimpin

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I'd think that "down a girl's throat" is a little bit of an overstatement. Seriously your not Gene Simmons. (he was the one with the really long tongue right?) Don't think too much on stuff like this. As things intensify you'll move your tongue in a bit but don't choke her and Don't jack hammer her throat with your tongue.
 

redbullfbu

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As mpimpin said, if things are gettin hotter go in further...jus kiss her how she kisses you, if she gives u a lot of tongue, give her a lot of tongue.

personally i wouldnt really worry about it...kissing comes natural to everyone as long as they're relaxed. ive had girls tell me im an amazing kisser and its usually when im relaxed/stoned. theres been a couple times in my past where ive been REALLY tense and did something wrong like bit their lip or something (long time ago haha) and then they think i suck. if ur relaxed while ur kissin her dont even worry about it how far ur tongue is. if u deep throat her and its disgusting most likely she will stop and say something. jus go at the pace she goes
 
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