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How far in do you stick your tongue?

yake

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Hey. How far do you go with your tongue when kissing? I seem to only be able to reach and play with the front part of a girls tongue. A lot of people speak about sticking their tongue down a girl's throat. Is this just overstating it?
 

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mpimpin

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I'd think that "down a girl's throat" is a little bit of an overstatement. Seriously your not Gene Simmons. (he was the one with the really long tongue right?) Don't think too much on stuff like this. As things intensify you'll move your tongue in a bit but don't choke her and Don't jack hammer her throat with your tongue.
 

redbullfbu

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As mpimpin said, if things are gettin hotter go in further...jus kiss her how she kisses you, if she gives u a lot of tongue, give her a lot of tongue.

personally i wouldnt really worry about it...kissing comes natural to everyone as long as they're relaxed. ive had girls tell me im an amazing kisser and its usually when im relaxed/stoned. theres been a couple times in my past where ive been REALLY tense and did something wrong like bit their lip or something (long time ago haha) and then they think i suck. if ur relaxed while ur kissin her dont even worry about it how far ur tongue is. if u deep throat her and its disgusting most likely she will stop and say something. jus go at the pace she goes
 
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