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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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How far can you take jealously plotlines?

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This one is pretty simple. I went out with a girl I really like on Thursday, "Lauren". I had already made plans with another girl, "Leah" to go to a restaurant, and earlier today I found out Lauren is the hostess there. So I decided to change plans with Leah but I was wondering if that was really the best thing to do. I don't have a commitment made with any of them. Would it have been a bad idea to have shown up at Lauren's restaurant with another girl, 2 days after our date (that went pretty well)?
 

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It depends on the girl.

Is Lauren an attention wh*re? In other words, does she dress extra hot like a Paris Hilton wannabe? Is she a bit full of herself? Does she have highlighted hair? Does she have expensive sunglasses that are the size of a windshield lol? Does she do some psuedo-lesbian dance with her girlfriends in a club? If you answered yes to any of those, then proceed with the jealousy plotline.

Is Lauren a nice, sweet, down to earth girl? If yes, then don't go foward with the jealousy stuff. Take Leah somewhere else.
 
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Thank you. Lauren is how you described. And I did take her somewhere else.
 

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The thing about jealousy is you don't want to make it go too far.

Your girl has to know other girls text/call you, that other girls find you hot & try to hang out with you, but taking a girl straight to the restaurant of another girl you were dating is probably not a good idea.
 

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I'm glad it worked out for you. My point was, attention wh*res would respond well to jealousy because they HATE not being the center of attention.

But a down to earth nice girl can be insulted and turned off by a direct jealousy plot like that.
 

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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