You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Personally I would just stop going to work and live off the govt or be a bum.Not much effect. Most of the money and advertisements of the world are for women. Women spend more money than men by a substantial amount.
Companies won’t alienate women because they know that they are the real consumers.
Or you can take care of your own universe. Save or invest or build things. Why would you worry or concern yourself with what the robots do?Personally I would just stop going to work and live off the govt or be a bum.
problem is taxes, don't matter if you want or not, you are supporting this in one way or another.Or you can take care of your own universe. Save or invest or build things. Why would you worry or concern yourself with what the robots do?
Let women get 20-40 grand in debt just with credit cards alone. Let them crumble into rubble. What’s it to you? If you’re smart you will never marry one of them.
100,000.00 grand just in student loans for a job that pays out at 75,000 a year? If your profession doesn’t start at 100,000.00 grand a year, why do the degree? Yeah, marry one of those types. LMAO
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I learned this some time ago. The difference between a man who is making it and a man who is not, is the man who is making it gets his money before it’s taxed.problem is taxes, don't matter if you want or not, you are supporting this in one way or another.
I would say that they know pvssy is important to a Man but they don't feel like jumping through hoops like a dolphin at sea world to get it.This is why I laugh at "MGTOW" guys pretending like pvssy doesnt matter. It's legit the ONLY thing that matters on this planet. Everything else is secondary.
the problem is the old sell of you are not buying a product, you are buying status, happiness, you be the envy of your friends, the worse is people really do fall for that, we sometimes fall for that too, being happy about something new you just bought, trying to show other people, after some time that "happiness" end so people tend to look for the next.I’m not sure, perhaps. Let’s say I don’t care.
I view western consumerism as like this, you get a job, you buy crap you can’t afford, you work for it like a slave, paying off debt. It goes this route in Russia, tho it’s different at the moment, people don’t make enough money, but credit is available, so they buy crap in credit.. it’s only starting here lol.
I am focused on Apple at the moment. Give credit where it’s do, it’s global cultural fenomena. People can’t afford a 1000 dollar phone, yet they buy it, in credit. Obviously things break, apple don’t fix, aftermarket board repair industry is a good way for guys like me to make 150+ k per year. I am fcking excited!!
So I would not argue that people buy sht because of pus, nah, when it comes to iphones at least, people buy sht that they can’t afford. That’s what I want to say about economy. But it’s not a bad thing, it makes a niche for people to make money.
Look out for opportunities in your field.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
One theory holds that the human brain is the same as the peacocks tail.I believe that if there were no incentive to pursue poontang, the economy would collapse.
But the idea is that if men stopped chasing the poon - e.g., because of mass MGTOW due to "uncanny valley" robo-escorts - they would not work, thus the being no money (and the goods & services that men for the economy in exchange for that money) for women to spend.Not much effect. Most of the money and advertisements of the world are for women. Women spend more money than men by a substantial amount.
Companies won’t alienate women because they know that they are the real consumers.
Define decent.Men didnt stop chase pvssy, its the average man who realized that any decent woman is not interested in him as a person and even if he puts money and work in it,
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.