"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How effective is mentioning other girls to a girl you like????

MKS82

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Im just curious to see what people have to say about this cause Im having a debate with a friend of mine. If you know that there might be some interest from her and you as well how effective is it to say
(Lets say that your seeing a girl on and off nothing serious)

Convo
Her: Ok well lets plan on me coming down tomorrow
Guy: Actually tomorrow is not so good i kind of promised this girl that i would go to her bday party

How will this effect the girls IL will it scare them away or will it make there IL higher and make them basically feel competitive and come after you more??
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why not just try it yourself and let us know what happens?
 

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It depends on how you mention it.. in a matter-of-factly offhand manner, it could help your game abit. If you over do it and sound like you are boasting then you're fvcked.

In my opinion, if such a party did exist, you might want to try reframing this by asking the girl if she wants to go to the party with you. I've field tested this before and it almost always works. Sometimes the girl will try and make you change your mind and go out with her instead. In that case i will strike a compromise of some sort like turning up at the party and then going to another place together after that. Just my opinion though, i would like to hear more about how other people think about this as well :D
 

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well actually did do this. It came out of my mouth without me even knowing it next thing i knew she was like why would i want to come down for that? It probably helped out though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It will make her jealous of the other girl and she'll try to get you to like her more than the other girl.
 
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