"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How effective is it to do this on valentines day?

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If you are really good friends with a girl and you know that the girl could possibly feel the same way as you but youre not quite sure, is it bad to basically tell her how you feel and tell her you want to be with her on your VDay date? Or just wait and see if she brings it up? During VDay emotions run like crazy if your with someone you like. Any good suggestions on what to do here?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The simple fact that your asking this question should give you your answer.




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Originally posted by jigga23
If you are really good friends with a girl and you know that the girl could possibly feel the same way as you but youre not quite sure, is it bad to basically tell her how you feel and tell her you want to be with her on your VDay date? Or just wait and see if she brings it up? During VDay emotions run like crazy if your with someone you like. Any good suggestions on what to do here?
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Dont break out your emotions,women do that. Just ask her who her valentine date is and if she doesnt have one tell her "Oh you dont have one? Good cause I preordered you awhile back for my Valentine" you should know whether or not to ask her to dinner by her response. Good Luck!
 
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Valentines Day is good for businesses, but it's just another day.
 
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