"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how educated are you?

how educated are you?

  • less than a high school diploma or GED

    Votes: 1 3.8%
  • high school graduate

    Votes: 1 3.8%
  • 2 year technical school, or in progress

    Votes: 1 3.8%
  • 4 year bachelor's degree, or in progress

    Votes: 15 57.7%
  • post graduate degree, master's, or in progress

    Votes: 6 23.1%
  • post graduate degree, PhD., or in progress

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • medical, etc, longer than any other option

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    26

(JJ)

Senior Don Juan
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what's your current status? why did you choose the path you chose, educationally? let's discuss, gentlemen. i'm curious to see what my fellow don juans pack, intellectually :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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synergy1

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Got my masters mostly because I felt too immature for the real world, and wanted to get a better project experience out of my field. I also wanted to enjoy college more than I did in my undergrad which was spent doing all homework.

current status: never going back...unless I get paid a lot.
 
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I will be getting two Bachelor Degrees in Spring of 2010 (Business Degree and a Communications Degree). I am doing an Online MBA Degree program to which I hope to completed in one year, then just for the hell of it, I'm going to get a Business Doctorate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SBW

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Postgrad diploma and a range of tech-college/specialised/professional qualifications got over years doing about any job other than the one I was trained to do.
 
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