"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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How does your upbringing affect your view of women?

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I know your background really makes a difference. I think sometimes I should have grown up in the 50's. I have much more conservative values. Too bad that doesn't mean jack**** with most of todays American women

I have actually found myself more interested in the traditional values of Mexican girls and others. But there are problems associated with that too. The biggest being, I don't want to marry a foreigner and then have her wanting to move back to her country, because she is close to her family.

It is tough but that is the way it is. But even in the 50's the James Dean, John Wayne non AFC types were popular!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Alucard:
Jester, eerily similar to me, dude. My mom always said, "you'll have to beat the girls off with a stick when you're 18". Wasn't the best way to motivate me to actually go out and MEET girls. Sheesh.
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I got that too. It turned out true, only b/c I found this site and used the awesome power contained within it to improve myself.
 
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Oh God, My situation's pretty wierd. I have a brother and two sisters, and there is a ten year gap between the years in which I was born and when my youngest sibling was born. Some people say that I was unintentional and that I was born from a broken condom or something.

My mother, being of italian descent, catholic and having been raised in the 50s was ultra ultra ultra conservative of the dating scene. In other words, she didn't want me chasing girls until I finished school for good. Fvck, she actually made me believe that having desire is bad/unreligious...on the otherhand, my father didn't give two ****ts. My mom pretty much hammered it into my head (the wrongness of chasing women) saying that it was for perverts, hahahahah, and for lazy people who didn't care about expanding their minds (a.k.a. doing good in school to become smart in order to get a good-paying job); it really really warped my thinking. In addition, I had my two sisters (who aren't exactly goddesses)...they were frustrated in high school and they imposed their bitterness upon me, always telling me never to pursue beautiful women. I can laugh at it now, but there are still some remnants left and I don't think it will be 100% gone away before I die. hahahhahhahahah, that's fvcked up.
 
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