"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How does women feel you are single

evan12

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What is the different in behavour between single and in-relationship man ?
I hear a lot that when you have a woman women get around you more , is that because they know that fact or because they just feel it .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I heard the same thing but only in regards to married men because of their wedding rings.
 

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You are married and attractive: They will hang around you in case you are a bad boy and will cheat on your wife with them

You are single and attractive: They will hang around you in case you will fvck them.

You are married and unattractive: They will say "aww, look how cute you two are." but will be glad it's not them married to you.

You are single and unattractive: They don't even notice you.

It's all about your value.

(I've never been married, but I notice this trend)
 

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Fly By Night said:
You are married and attractive: They will hang around you in case you are a bad boy and will cheat on your wife with them

You are single and attractive: They will hang around you in case you will fvck them.

You are married and unattractive: They will say "aww, look how cute you two are." but will be glad it's not them married to you.

You are single and unattractive: They don't even notice you.

It's all about your value.

(I've never been married, but I notice this trend)
Awesome
 
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