How does the Vicious Cycle end?

[green69]

You know what I guys mean. Your GF breaks up with you and try to move on with your life by not contacting her in any way. At some point she's going to try to get in touch with you because she misses your company/attention.

I think most guys at this point know now that this is just usually just a plea for attention and the girl gets an ego-boost out of knowing you still want her. If you still acknowledge her attempts and admit your feelings/try to get with her most often times she'll start ignoring you again. You just gave her an ego boost and she fulfilled her attention ***** needs so she has no use for you anymore.

How does this vicious cycle end? If you continue ignoring her from day one and you don't respond does she eventually give up? Does she end up asking you to take her back? Even if she does, how do you know she's being serious? She could act all flirty like she wants you then the second you admit you feel the same way she's lost the attraction because she knows she can have you still. It's an interesting paradox that I can't quite figure out.

 

[Ollie]

Take her back and tell her you love her while you're treating her like sh!t. Game over. That's one way it can end. The reason why women take guys back and leave right away most of the time seems to me to be because the guy acts like a needy b!tch and smothers her when they get back together more than the girl trying to be an attention *****. They keep repeating the same behavior that made her leave in the first place, only multiplied by 100 to show her how much he loves her.

 

[WhtRbt]

You don't respond to her and ignore her forever.

 

[KontrollerX]

WhtRbt said it.

Also another way to end the vicious cycle in your favor is to follow the directions in Metaphysical's "So you just got dumped" guide to the letter.

Specifically the parts where he tells us all how to make a woman whose dumped us earn her way back into our life for having dumped us as she now wants us back for whatever reason.

His instructions are very different from the AFC mentality which has most dumped guys so overjoyed that their one wants them back that they take her back without the slightest making her prove herself to them first.

Also it needs to be stressed that even after following Metaphysical's guide to the letter and getting the desired result you are never to ever love again a woman that has betrayed you deeply and thats what being dumped by some b!tch is. It is a deep betrayel of your trust and you never give such a woman your love again.

Its one of those fool me once, fool me twice, fool me three times shame on me type of deals. Don't do it bros.

After using Metaphysical's guide to get your sweety back you must always understand that she is a cvm receptacle only and that if you are the kind of guy that desires a wifey she is not quality material for that role.

She let you know that loud and clear by dumping your ass once upon a time.

Only 100% trustworthy women are up for wifey consideration.

You can't be an idiot and rationalize away a woman's previous wrongdoing to you of oh she is so naive and didn't know what she was doing to leave me like that yadda yadda yadda as no she knew exactly what she was doing, she's not as dumb as you think and part of the reason you are rationalizing her bad behavior away is because you deep down think you are too much of a loser to get out there and secure another woman for yourself who is hotter and better than what you're with now.

So yeah guys remember if you follow Metaphysical's guide you have to understand that the girl who dumped you that you've taken back after making her prove herself to you is still only ever to be a cvm dumpster to you that you will never again love or put up for consideration at either being a long term girlfriend or wifey material.

Only 100% trustworthy women get consideration for those roles and if you symp the fvck out and get complacent and give one of these roles to a woman that has in the past proven how untrustworthy she is you then deserve whatever bad things happen to you as a result of your stupid decision to allow AFC mentality to creep back up on you.

 

[LuisGarcia10]

WhtRbt said it.
Its one of those fool me once, fool me twice, fool me three times shame on me type of deals. Don't do it bros.

After using Metaphysical's guide to get your sweety back you must always understand that she is a cvm receptacle only and that if you are the kind of guy that desires a wifey she is not quality material for that role.

She let you know that loud and clear by dumping your ass once upon a time.

Only 100% trustworthy women are up for wifey consideration.

You can't be an idiot and rationalize away a woman's previous wrongdoing to you of oh she is so naive and didn't know what she was doing to leave me like that yadda yadda yadda as no she knew exactly what she was doing, she's not as dumb as you think and part of the reason you are rationalizing her bad behavior away is because you deep down think you are too much of a loser to get out there and secure another woman for yourself who is hotter and better than what you're with now.
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For the most part I agree.

However, people DO make mistakes, and people DO change. Let's not let our resistance to falling into AFC behaviour cloud that fact. I would be a massive hypocrite if I stood here and said I'd never give anyone a second chance as I've done some very bad things in my time as well.

Of course she knew what she was doing when she did it, I agree completely. However I alson believe she can grow to regret her actions. For me the key is regret, if I just nexted every girl that ever made a mistake I'd grow to be a very lonely man, and I'd be even lonlier if girl's had the same attitude to me.

I am a believer that people can make mistakes and can live to genuinely regret them, I think the AFC is the man that takes every half hearted apology as genuine, as apposed to someone who analyses it a little deeper to see whether or not the girl is honestly sorry.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Originally posted by LuisGarcia10
For the most part I agree.

However, people DO make mistakes, and people DO change. Let's not let our resistance to falling into AFC behaviour cloud that fact. I would be a massive hypocrite if I stood here and said I'd never give anyone a second chance as I've done some very bad things in my time as well.

Of course she knew what she was doing when she did it, I agree completely. However I alson believe she can grow to regret her actions. For me the key is regret, if I just nexted every girl that ever made a mistake I'd grow to be a very lonely man, and I'd be even lonlier if girl's had the same attitude to me.

I am a believer that people can make mistakes and can live to genuinely regret them, I think the AFC is the man that takes every half hearted apology as genuine, as apposed to someone who analyses it a little deeper to see whether or not the girl is honestly sorry.

I agree here if ive interpreted it correctly, which is that you're saying to follow Metaphysicals guide and have some respect for yourself, but dont go overboard.

Part of being a DJ i think is to roll with the punches of life and to let most things roll off your back, with the exception of situations where acting in such a way would make you seem like a supplicating, weak, intimidated person.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

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