"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go from the "He's hot I'd go out with him" to the "He's a nice guy and good friend".

Its happened to all of us at same stage or other, hell it even happened to me just last month, no flaming but I'd like to know how some of us went down that path. I know I shouldnt really worry about that if I had layed the ground work right, but I just want to know all your guys experiences with this type of situation etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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With a LOT of time you can change that second one.

Just forget about her, and stop being so nice to her. After a long while she'll see you in a new light.
 
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King of Kingz said:
Newsflash - Looks come first 90% of the time, therefore she liked you at first b/c of your looks, and something must have happened afterwards that made her take a stage left and give you the "friends" line.
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What a retard.
 
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You don't possess the attributes that she desires in a partner or fvck buddy...

Most common reason is that you just don't convey your masculinity enough... you're not assertive, you're indecisive and she wants the stereotypical strong willed male...
 
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